>>379947223
This sort of thing never happens in game. People are generally chill and social in vrc or in any other game we play. I don't think you should judge the community based on the state of the thread.
The problem with this thread is a greater problem with /vg/ in general, it's just anonymous enough that people can use it as a bathroom stall to write whatever drama and gossip they want without people knowing it's them. 

I really do encourage you to show up to one of the meetups if you're curious, the worst that can happen is that you don't like what you see and then leave.