>manage to find a comfy public lobby on my first day or trying out vrchat 
>initially there's 5 people in the lobby and everyone is having a normal conversation
>"cool" avatars join 
>the girl who was acting like a normal human being suddenly gets lewd and keeps bringing up porn or 'sex work'
>decide to go off to the side to continue my conversation with someone else without getting shouted over
>people start spamming their joke avatars
>3 mirror mutes join out of nowhere and are making out in the corner
>random kid shouting about being corrupted 

are most public lobbies like this or did I get unlucky