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>For example, why the fuck do people send you a request to join your world or you join theirs, and then they immediately go elsewhere before you even have a chance to respond and load in?
Invites are a main way of joining meetup instances around here. Therefore, many people see invites and invite requests not as "Hey, I want to hang out with you specifically" but as "Hey I want to join the instance", so they just send you the invite to try to help you out and don't think much of it afterwards.