>>355761953
>There's a lot of broken, sad but self-centered people around here who just want to unload their problems onto other people with no concern for anyone else, but you're not their therapist. If you stop letting them vent to you eventually they'll get the message because they're not getting the attention they want, and they'll go bother someone else with it.
This 100%. There are people who think it's your responsibility to wipe their ass for them and feel entitled to your attention and expect you to remind them to even do basic things to care for themselves, and then get pissy at you if you don't give them enough attention or even if you're friends with people they don't like. If you don't stop them from walking on you and manipulating (grooming) you they WILL use you as their punching bag. And then they'll say sorry, I want to change, I hate being like this, etc just to get you comfortable with them again. And then they do it again. And then they apologize again. And nothing changes. And then it happens again. And again. At first you wonder if it was your fault, but then that disappears pretty fast once you find out that it happened with other people too.

>>355761616
The people I know who've had VR issues have also had real life issues.

>>355761985
>>355762440
Having boundaries isn't rude. It's necessary.
Be careful to not let 'friendly' needy people with no boundaries groom you.