>>386843974
No? It's called being a normal person. If you think a group will cater yourself to you, as opposed to you fitting into the group naturally, you must be new.

I'm yet to meet anyone who's outwardly hostile or unreasonable, or as you put it, unwelcoming. If you don't make an ass of yourself, or act like one, you're fine. I don't honestly see your problem. 
Have you lived a such sheltered basement dweller life that you feel offended when people just don't enjoy your presence for some reason?
I'm unsure whether you're baiting or not, but I am one to always take the bait. :^)