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Good points and well reasoned. The only thing I have to add is that people often want to look and feel a certain way for their own satisfaction, not just to attract a mate. "Just be gay" works for some people, not for everyone.

>I play girl avatars but never have I thought "oh damn I wish I had a vagina in real life". I'm thankful for my penis and I'm glad to be a bulky male.
This part is weird to me but then I'm extrapolating from my own experience. The idea that someone would be so enthusiastic about their gender is novel, but I guess that would be most of the world if they had reason to think critically about it, which is something VRChat gender-bending does to people.