>>359033654
you don't get it.
if you log on every day for many hours, there will be many times where they need a resort and you happen to be there so they join because of that.
this will be true for multiple people that have you on their friends list.
as they all join on you as a resort, they will notice other people also join on you.
inside their head, it will imply you're popular, so now they'll start joining on you even more, this time not as a resort, but as a priority.
and it only snowballs from there.
all you have to do to get this train going is to have a period of time that you log on every day for many hours.