>>264799860
easiest way is to join on events like this >>264785798
where the person posts their name in the thread 
friend them, join, introduce yourself to people there as "new, from the thread, vrg" and send out friend requests 
basically vrg only hangs out with vrg so if you have vrg people on your friendlists you can just join them any time to get to the meetup
the "meetup" is just any instance where the majority of people there are vrg