>i think i made some tranny cry 
good
>even though i was calling them her the whole time
cringe
>because i said if someone doesnt pass enough it makes me uncomfortable to say her
calling a man "him" is nothing to be ashamed of 
>but the whole time i thought it was a girl
honestly if the troon puts in effort to appear as girl its not that bad atleast they try. still mental ill but like in the good way mentally ill. it takes a lot to have a feminine body and i can respect the effort and care they put into that
>i was talking to and i said her why did they feel personally attacked
most troons on the internet ar narcissistic insane people who dont realize there is a world out there 
>and how do i deal with this better in the future
you dont. if they cant accept you for who you are, then they are not worth your time