>>347829857
I wouldn't even use the term grooming myself if it wasn't something other people use so often. It really is exactly as you said, just someone who's being a friend while openly expressing sexual interest. I really don't see any negatives with this.

Based on what other people said, the negative part seems to be the fact that they stop talking to you after a single sexual incident, but to me that sounds like the other person's fault and not the groomer's fault. I struggle to believe anyone has good satisfying sex and afterwards thinks "oh I never want to talk to this person again after this amazing sex we had last night"

my own experience tells me that if the sex was good, they message you first thing tomorrow morning, wish you a good morning, tell you they had dreams about you, and that they wish to hang out with you again