>>307075117
The fomo is just a matter of perspective. Surely you're also missing out on a lot of events that only get arranged on the vrchat facebook group or r/vrchat. The discord server that happens to have the same name as this thread has a higher overlap of the people who actually lurk the thread, but I still consider them a separate group at this point. If that crowd of people and their events appeal to you, then yes you have to join their discord to interact with them, but if you just want to hang out with people who lurk this thread, lurk the thread yourself and look for instance links and other events posted here, and happily ignore anything else, just as you happily ignore r/vrchat or the facebook group. Works on my machine.