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Ultimately what you need to do is think about what you would think about if you were someone else and you saw/played with another person who was exactly like you. Is there something bothersome about you? Then ask other people about what they think of you, while being honest that you won't have any hurt feelings. If you think there is a negative about you and so do they, then expectations match and you can think about overcoming that part of you. If expectations don't match then that means you have different views of people than what's normal, and maybe you should either accept that you think differently than other people, or try to change the way you think, which will help how you view yourself. Essentially, you would be calibrating yourself.