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This is probably just baiting but I'll bite anyway. It will never last as long no matter how hard you try. There are just so many missteps you have to avoid that it just doesn't make it worthwhile from my experience. The longer it goes on the shakier it'll get like one or both of you might losing interest in one another, not to mention the maintenance you'll need to keep it going.

Particularly if both of you are dudes, then it's far less likely to remain stable. Not to mention if you try dating anyone here it'll just be a diaster since everyone and everybody already knows each other and whatnot. 

Your only real attempt might be jumping on a newfag or something. Alternatively, there are always those rp families in pubs.

bottom line is just get a vrbro or something instead. Unless you plan on moving in with each other as an end-goal or at least taking it outside of vrchat then it's never going to be anything but plain suffering.