be your own judge on who you hangout with and don't expect already established circles of friends to do anything but parrot the popular opinions or to shit on those they don't personally like
you'll find your own flock eventually by just hanging out around people long enough and seeing whose company you enjoy and who enjoys your company
or you can just decide no one in here is your flock and go hangout with random public people until you find "good ones" out there and make a new circle of friends / join a existing one through that
main thing is to have fun and find people to have fun with