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unless you plan to join /vrg/ meetups you will first have to find a in through public worlds, most people have already found their circles so you will have to get lucky in public worlds to find people to hangout with, if you're really lucky they know other people and you can join their circles through that
either that or you can fly solo in less popular public worlds and have fun with randoms, some of them are alright and decent company just missed the golden years of people still finding people to hangout with, others are stuck on public worlds for a reason but eh you'll find groups that click with you eventually
since you're here the meetups would probably be the best option to dip your toes in to find a group to hangout with, join a meetup and add people you like, just don't take it personally if some people don't accept friend request bunch of people have their lists so populated they don't have time for the friends they already have