>>287744323
When you hit the menu button, the laser that your other hand emits is the same raycast as what vrchat uses to detect which button you're hitting. So if you're trying to hit a button, you can quickly toggle on the menu to get your hand position and laser right, and eventually you'll get a feel for it.

But yes, it's pretty shit overall, and I haven't heard of any plans to improve it. Such is vrchat.