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I get what you're trying to do, but I personally don't let myself get close or cuddly with others in VR [spoiler]anymore[/spoiler] because I'm worried I'll be less motivated to go for the "real deal" as you call it. An IRL relationship has both complications and rewards that VR misses out on. VRC is literally easy mode for affection and that can still lead to stunted emotional growth in my opinion.