>>396525819
That's the thing. I know what you feel like anon. I've been there. I kept giving and giving and my happiness reserves to give ran out. Even retreated for a few weeks away from /vrg/.

But then I noticed my method was flawed.
I tried to give love to people who was refusing to reciprocate both the time and love back.
Thinking falsely that if I invest more then they will surely love back.
But time is limited and thus those who actually are reciprocating are getting much less love from me because some people are black holes only taking.

What you need is to update your methodology and observe very keenly on who actually reciprocates. And slowly increase the time investment and love investment on those who do reciprocate.