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Anon I agree, but not because VRchat. That's what it simply is like online, always. It's good to go into these kind of chats, be it VRchat, Second Life, MSN chat room (lol, boomer me), 4chan discussion boards, Yahoo chat rooms or whatever the fuck: know that people are millions of miles away and want to just connect and chat. Expect the more open and friendly someone is, it's because they have everything well in their world. If you have depression and you go into virtual realities expecting a cheer up, well, you'll get it - but it won't fix your underlying problem of depression. That's actually true even for real life. People can't help you. Depression has to be tackled with either medication or therapy. Neither of which you get from online communities. 

However if you dress as some hot big tittied neko / anime whore and get praises, they aren't really praising you. They are praising your character, which isn't you. They want to touch their dick while looking at your avatar. Not you. Women too want company, someone to chat with, because their boyfriend isn't paying attention to them. You're the nice guy online who she can talk with. You're literally what her boyfriend isn't for her, but she'll still fuck the boyfriend because she just got both world satisfied. Her social side and her sexual side. You just got the shittier end by being basically her pillow to talk to while her bf rams her from behind in real life.

Never fall for this shit. Grow up and start acting like you're worth a lot more. Don't let these faggots push you around and also never join any sub community on 4chan. They are all filled with absolute insane retards who think the highest of themselves while being the cringiest little cretins on the face of the earth. If they reject you or use you, who gives a shit? They are shit people to begin with. 

Get better, faggot.