>>287991658
I did this and uncovered lots of "nice guys" who were actually sociopaths, and you really should do this to your VRfu, so many fucking people are lying pieces of shit.

What's the worse that's gonna happen? You tell them you found out they're thirst posting with the images they sent you, and then they freak out, get defensive and call you a stalker?

If that happens, you caught them, break up with them. Calling your lover a stalker is something pyschos do to alleviate responsibility and make you feel bad.