>>359045879
okay anon, so you already know the problem, and it's not your social skills.
this is a hard pill to swallow but brace yourself for it: you're just a boring person. if a clone of you existed you probably wouldn't want to be your own friend and would consider him a last resort option when others are online.

based on what you said, you're jumping around doing all sorts of things, without ever getting really good at anything, because you're not really all that passionate about it. not only that you have nothing you're good at, but you have a lot of things you're bad at, which makes you feel even worse about yourself.

no amount of social skills will make people want to suddenly be your friend, because that's not what you're missing to begin with. you need to become an interesting person first. you need to find at least one thing that you really enjoy doing, and get good at it, good enough to that point that if you meet someone else that also likes that thing and is good at it, you'll be able to have a meaningful conversation about it.

I can't choose for you what that thing is going to be, you have to choose yourself, but I recommend starting with something that has a low skill ceiling, and then going into harder things later.

the sooner you realize this and fully accept it, the better. you can be the most nice and charming person in the world, but if you're bad at everything, nobody will care about you. meanwhile you can be good at stuff and be a complete asshole, but people will still seek you out for advice on that stuff, or want you on their team when doing it.

your problem was not social skills to begin with