I've come to understand my own upset about how /vrg/ has changed, at first I too was mad about randos but I've made a realisation. It's just an age gap thing. 
I'm a few months away from forty, the newcomers to /vrg/ are in some cases less than half my age. We have absolutely zero in common, we may as well speak different languages, so of course I feel like they don't belong. But the truth is that it's me, It's long past time for me to go. 
So yeah, I'm not mad or anything anymore, /vrg/ will be fine it's just the times they are a-changing.