If you really want gf maybe stop greasing up in the thread over girls talking to you. If you NEED to find someone through vrchat and use it as a dating app know that #1 long distance sucks and covid makes it impossible to see some people right now #2 if the ball gets rolling with someone make sure you webcam call #3 there are plenty of people that will just use you like an emotional leech if red flags come up be strong enough to cut it off #4 understand that getting a girlfriend isnt going to improve your life in the long run especially an online one.

I would highly reccomend not pursuing this route as you are most likely just going to get hurt and constantly met with deceit or disappointment.