>>315753556
I killed myself trying to help for years against smaller problems too, but I realized by letting people learn by experiencing the pain for themselves instead of me, they gain more experience and I don't burn myself out trying to help every little problem. I am tough enough and I can try and help, but whats the point if they suffer when I am not there or never learned what caused it in the first place, they need to learn how to do it themselves. Pretenders suck, but I can safely say I just know what's a lost cause and what to put hope into.