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that or just make or do something -objectively- cool and entertaining: an avatar, some 3d accessory model, some world, an animation, spin music at clubs, teach something you know, draw art, host nights, whatever.
Do something objectively cool to contribute to vrchat's and/or any other game vrg is into's meme content and you'll find likeminded people who think your stuff is cool and want to make more stuff with you. 
This is the most wholesome and real way to interact with vrchat in general and the parties and games are secondary, but you'll find yourself invited to them with people who genuinely enjoy your company if you contribute in some way, even if that's just being kind and funny but not at the expense of others (for the most part.)
This season is hard on a lot of people. Despite the attitude you get from this board outwardly (it's a subconscious filter for easily offended snowflakes) and some of the ways people act in various VR social platforms when they're fucking around, the people who stick around are generally nice.