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Okay, read closely. Nothing in life is fair! You have literal groomers and trophy lewders in this community who find it an achievement to have bragging rights. But let's ignore that.
Sure it sounds romantic, even cool, that two people can love each other so much, to trust each other innately, to not be afraid you'll lose someone but that's not how our monkey brains work and that's not how society works. It's inherently dishonest to laze around and flirt with others because when you flirt you're making that person feel like the only one, or at worst outright saying: "You're greatest person I know." despite saying that to your actual partner. No one is that mature to handle that shit.
>I would seriously be more bothered by my vr bf losing interest
Guess what? That's what will happen.
Easily people can minimize and forget the actions of others, and often people get boring. If someone new comes around it's really easy to be forgotten, especially in impulsive communities like this one. So your fear becomes true if you don't try to foster clear respect and communication with each other, and you can only have respect if you're firm and know what you want. If you want to go around and fuck, go ahead, but you won't ever have a partner that lasts more than a few years because eventually someone will come around and be you but better, they're be everything you are but better and they will lose interest in you because they'll have one thing you lack: The confidence to actually be a decent partner.
>if it doesn't affect your life why tf do you care? do you tell your vr bf what he's allowed to eat and when he should go to pee as well?
The two aren't comparable, one is simply asking for the respect to not be hurt by you being dishonest. The other is a control freak.