>>362765085
For me it's not about being afraid to be rejected, it's just fucking annoying having to wait for a mere chance to join on someone. If you make me wait a bit every single time I want to join on you, I'll be less likely to do it and join on other people instead where I don't have to wait.

Little frictions adds up, and if that's a generalizable feeling (which I think it is) and those people complain about people not joining on them (of which I know people that do), then that is a them problem.