>>324586835
I remained mute. I don't live alone so I can't use such a voice.
>>324586450
>could you talk about your experiences and how it helped anon
For me it was the realization that appearing as a cute female isn't just a modifier that makes everyone like you more. It's very superficial and you won't make actual friends through that alone. It influences the ways people interact with you. I've had people write me off completely as a 'coomer' despite never doing anything sexual in VR and not even using a highly sexualized avatar. A lot of people will pretend to be a friend until they realize you won't have sex with them, then never speak to you again. I think people just generally take you less seriously.

In VR everyone can be 10/10 so if you're a social retard, it's even more apparent. It broke the illusion that my life would be in any way better if I had just been born female, or as a male feminine enough to be a trap. It was a scapegoat all along for never learning the basic social skills necessary to interact properly with anyone, and not my physical appearance causing problems. That and the fact I'd never be anywhere near as attractive as my avatar in real life if I tried.