>>291209580
I'm more than old enough to have learned that this isn't how it works. This is what I expected and it didn't happen. [spoiler]Like geniunely, I hate this advice. This advice is why I squandered my days at University. Just being around people and getting on with them isn't enough. You have to go beyond that. And now I've been in the real world for many years and those opportunities are all gone, with no social avenues, there's no chance of things 'just happening'. Last time I tried getting closer to people in vrg, by trying to get to know more about them, it completely backfired and people actively pushed back. Like people want to be 'friends' but nothing beyond the superficial light fun shared in VRChat. That shit sent me into depression for a few months and I worry about falling back into it.[/spoiler]