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>whose whole personality is being passive until you get to the "friend" part.
The thing is that I'm trying to be active but I'm afraid of overdoing it because I've had some bad experiences in the past with that. It's tough finding the right mix. I don't care how long it takes but as I said I've had that happen before in my life even after a significant amount of time, plus it's really discouraging never seeing any progress. It could be that I just have nothing to offer, even personality-wise. There are some things I learned from previous or failed friendships, but this one still eludes me.