>Not super established around the block just yet, been around for a several months
>Muster up drunk courage to join a meetup
>Everyone in their own groups talking about stuff
>Walk around for a few minutes, leave

Too scared to join any more meetups because I don't have any group of people I could consider my clique / can't get to know people and make friends in the first place due to not joining them anymore.
I know I'm just one in a sea of people who struggle with the same thing, but damn.
In the past I'd just slide into the right groups by mere chance, then stick close and make meaningful connections with people, but it just doesn't wanna happen with VRC.