>>349644902
this
I have a bunch of friends I never lewded, never made moves on, and have no interest in making moves on, and we still talk and hang out often and I join on them regularly
And then I have a bunch of friends I've been lewding regularly for months or years now
If people are making moves on you but you're not interested, try to make it more obvious to them

good example:
have properly clothed avatar with modest proportions, someone is acting lewd around you, say "by the way I don't erp just want to make sure you don't get the wrong idea" in a cold and serious voice

bad example:
wear a tight clothes female avatar with visible body parts and exaggerated butt and/or breasts, someone is acting lewd around you, say "I'm very wholesome and don't ever do lewd stuff hehe" while doing a wink gesture and laughing

most people in this game are both insecure and impatient as fuck, nobody is going to try hitting on you if you make them actually think you're not interested. if people are trying to erp with you chances are you're encouraging it

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J7QNw1LRJv4