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Someone earlier in the thread hit the nail on the head, lack of gatekeeping is a community failure.
I stopped gatekeeping aggressively when I realized it was a thankless job that nobody else really cared about or helped with and that it brought me random aggro from people when I kicked their friends and just got me a reputation as an overly prude busybody. 
It's the most thankless thing you can do, literally nobody thanks you for it but they do rage at you when you when you do something that pisses them off or make a mistake. My leisure time is a lot more leisurely since I stepped back and stopping doing that kind of stuff.