>>380922630
I'm tired of your ineffectual limp wristed whining so I'm going to take a moment out of my day to remind you of some truths. Remembering these things would make you a more well adjusted person.

What you spend your time doing in VR isn't sex. You are sitting alone in your room masturbating yourself. No one is doing this to you. It is a choice you made.
You are not having sex with another person. Another person is masturbating with you and they are hundreds or thousands of miles away. They cannot touch you and cannot force you to do anything.
When someone >>>>touches you in VR, they are moving their arm through empty space in some random room hundreds or thousands of miles away. When someone >>>>touches you in VR, you are actually standing alone in your room with plastic shit strapped to you. That's it.
Your avatar is not you. When someone clips their model into your model, they are not touching you.
It is a choice you made. No one here is responsible for you but yourself. 
And, as a reminder, this isn't a lewd community. You're looking for the /vrlg/ community over on trash.

Most of the problems here are because people like you take this shit way too seriously. You are not your avatar. You are not having sex. Your internet >>>>relationship is not a real relationship.
If you want things like sex and relationships, leave your home, get a job, and find a nice girl. Stop larping here, deluding yourself into thinking that this is your real life is just hurting you.

Except for the last paragraph, none of those things are opinions. There is no way to argue with them. These are simply stated facts. 
Next time you feel like crying in VR cause your VR boyfriend hurt your fweeelings or next time you feel like someone is gwooooming you in VR, lift your headset up and take a good hard look at the real world.