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seriously nobody here is cuddling and headpatting IRL, thats intimate stuff you do either with a pet dog/cat/whatever or with an SO, possibly parents when younger too. those actions have always been reserved for such and no amount of sophistry will change it. the real talk is >WOW EVERYONES GIV BONER LOL ITS OK NOW!!! EXCUSES HERES MY EXCUSES!!!!!
sick of arguing with people about this in vrchat about stuff thats been a given for the longest fucking time now

the only real exception is the headpat handshake thing when someone says hello not the rubs your entire face and body for 30 minutes headpats, yes there's a difference between hello *patpatpat* and hello *rubrubigotabonerrubmoremorerubmmmmmbonerhahaahhaha*