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I've tried hundreds of times and no-one will do anything. I've had someone finally agree to play a game then they didn't show up because their other group arranged something that clashed. In three years I've been invited maybe 5 times to do anything and it's always a one-off when it's clear they've run out of other friends to ask. They never want to do anything again after. Never once has anyone accepted an invitation to do anything.
>they don't like you
I considered this and stopped messaging everyone to see if anyone would resume contact and a few did. If they don't like me, why didn't they take the opportunity to never speak to me again? The only way it makes sense is because I'm not part of any group in-which to have influence. I only know a few people on a one-to-one basis.