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I guess there's a few ways of lewding. I think some people think it's like the please please please please video where they're actively roleplaying the act of sex. I guess that's high effort lewding but lewding can also be chill and relaxed where it's just two people flirting and being intimate until someone gets aroused and just puts down a controller and finishes them self off while the other person continues to do whatever it was that aroused them. 
The chill and relaxed lewding is really not hard to do and if it's done with someone you're emotionally close to it can be a really nice experience. I assume it's the kind of lewding that goes on in most 2 person private/sleep instances. Trash lewding is pleasepleasepleasepleaseplease tier though, yikes.