>>339627791
Trying to constantly improve is irrational and compensating for the fact that as a child you didn't have all your needs met and your parents just ignored you most of the time. If you have self-esteem and security, you accept that people will sometimes let you down instead of trying to do everything yourself and live on the top of that mountain of self-perfection, far above everyone else, far superior to everyone else, and unable to relate to their peasant issues because you're so perfect.

I'd rather have melties, act cringe, get called out, and be a shit sometimes because that's how most people act and it means I can relate to them, even if the price I pay is being unhappy more often than you. I'd rather suffer with company and be part of humanity than be happy in isolation and give up my humanity.