>>392440770
It's kind of an attention arms race at this point. Unless you have a very strong or assertive personality, people are just going to gravitate towards the most attractive individuals in any instance.

A pirated booth avatar with minimal Unity customization is about as lazy as you can get away with to get social traction here.

Personally, as something of a lanklet, I'm closer to anime girl proportions than basically any male body I've ever tried, and feels like I'm compensating for way less.