>>323090164
The index isn't the best screen any more, but it's one of the best. 
What you're talking about is just the limitations of the current gen. If you'd used a vive or dk1 you'd be like HOLY FUCK PIXELS. The index is way better. It's easily good enough.

>>323089818
Just do it the subtle way then. Check out how receptive they are, and how much they flirt back. Keep in mind everyone likes attention so you will have to expect some positive feedback. How they treat or react to you differently than others is the BIGGEST tell though.