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I think it's useful to tie categorizer the events at least for yourself to not be overwhelmed by them.

Notice how most "events" these days are more of a continual maintenance weekly type ones.
These are akin to "hanging out" with a specific main purpose rather than an "event event".

Movie watching
Anime watching
PyPy Dancing
Karaoke
Exploration
Chess
Dinner
Japanese Learning
Ghost
Drinking nights
DJ events
Valheim VR
Pavlov

These are non-FOMO events that are there consistently and you can join in when you feel like it. I see no reason to feel overwhelmed if you view it like this.

Then you have the seasonal events that occur.
Secrets of Santa
Friend by Friend
Idol Festival
Prom/Dance Balls
Halloween event

These are rarer and happens only once or twice a year so there is some bonfire gathering effect to them

Unique events are rarer still that only literally happens once and almost never gets repeated.
Sneed Event being a prime example
Grengzgard event too
Wheel of 4chan
There is quite major FOMO that can occur on these major events that are almost never made again.

The point is. You should reframe your mind to see that, not all events are there forcing you to go to them.
Once you learn this then you can properly depressurize your tension.