>>311051470
then enjoy your "superficial acquaintances" to the best of your ability while seeking for more friends from a wider scope
are you boring, are you mean, is there something you can improve about your personality that isn't fundamental part of you, do you have unhealthy habits that push people away? 
these questions help you try to figure out where you are going wrong with your search for deep bonds, some people just have personality or conditions that prevent them from forming "meaningful relationships" with others so be prepared for that as well
there are loads of people in the world (and vrchat), to say you cannot find any to be your bff's is defeatism based on negative experiences so far, you have to shovel through a mountain of "shit" to reach the "good ones" meaning you have to put yourself out there and meet people to finally run into people you really click with and who click with you
your attitude might be fundamentally flawed if your requirement to call someone a real friend is that you are their number one go to bff as well, maybe your superficial acquaintances are just people that a lot of people like who don't want to abandon the rest of their friends to elevate some of them on a pedestal
>>311051889
id say let people come and go as they please, "the good ones" aka the ones you get along with stick around out of their own free will and those are the ones you should try to spend your time with