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>lewding people
That works too to an extent but skills aren't transferable. As always it's about how far you go into the subject topic as well. You can either go be able to please multiple people or be able to have a really nice ability to generate unique situations while lewding and that they truly appreciate your help in lewds. 
Think of the bonobo society. 
If you are ok with joining a group like this and you truly like their activities then there is nothing inherently wrong as long as you understand what you are going into.

Though this might be fragile as you gain confidence by getting approval from others. Best confidence is when it's a self assessment from within. Something you deem yourself worthy.