>>346620875
You are dependent on others. Your entire life is a series of events that you had no control over. The decisions you make now are the result of things that happened to you in the past. The sooner you realize this, the less harsh the fall when you stop being carried by essentially random chance will be.
>>346620658
It's not a rational decision but a function of the brain attempting to maximize its chances of creating offspring. Objectively it is just lights on a 2D plane, but parts of your brain are still operating exactly as if you're a hunter-gatherer trying to avoid being ejected from the tribe (death).