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and then you become the nazi mod/janny that everyone hates. you spend all your time fighting with pissed off people and never have time to have any fun

That's why nobody really lines up to do these things, nobody wants to be the bad guy. Everyone just wants to sit on the sidelines and let you be the bad guy that takes the heat for them. 

That said, I don't think that really strict gatekeeping is super necessary. Just go somewhere else if the room you're in is too stinky. Works for me.