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It really depends on your headspace. Like there is the physical sensation you can get for $20 off amazon. But even a strap can't compare to the knowledge a human being is using your physical body to get off. Your reasoning shuts off and instinct takes over. It's incredibly validating if even for a short time.

After I lost my bottom virginity to a human, even after years of personal play, I still had that "I had sex yesterday" swagger in my walk as if I was the top.[/spoiler]