For Public worlds, avoid the popular filled ones. Go to smaller populated worlds where it's more chill.
I enjoy changing my nameplaye to green, then go to avatar worlds and speak to new users looking for a piedestal avatar. Trying out some avatars and laugh about it.
Or go to community world pubs. The public world probably have the map creator in it. That also gives you something to talk about.
While I enjoy hanging out with /vrg/, it gets stale from time to time, andmeeting new people is fun.