I visited someone on my friends list today. The instance was a bunch of people all in one tiny area at the edge of a mirror. I waited for about 2 full minutes and they still hadn't all loaded in, and the ones who had, were all the same fucking garbage TDA trash aesthetic, abominable performance nonsense. 

I quelled my hate for tda garbage but holy shit was I pissed. I check one of their avatar stats and it's like hundreds of fucking dynamic bone collision checks.

How am I supposed to deal with this? This is the majority of the VRChat population and therefore it's what I think the majority of the population on earth are. Absolute trash in every regard. How am I supposed to thrive in a world like this? What the fuck is wrong with people? Many of these people have full body tracking, so how the fuck can they clearly care about VRChat a lot but not understand the first, 101 shit about avatars? You don't even have to make them to know that a shit ton of dynamic bones is stupid. Why do people want the same aesthetic from Second Life in the 00's? Why do people want to look like Timmy's Create A Wrestler from Smackdown vs Raw from a decade ago? It's not even 'hip' or current. How does any of this make sense.