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>go to public meetups, but see these "closed" ones that aren't really advertised but are obviously meetups that happen daily

people do pop off to their private friend group instances after meetups but these daily ones arent announced because from what i can tell, people who know each other just join up off of someone they see in a world around the same time. although ive had the same group of friends for so long that i dont feel comfortable inserting myself into a place where i dont know others, so i just dont go to these daily ones