Imagine this scenario, but then realise this is a real scenario:
You have someone on your friends list, it's a vrchat dev. You mention off handedly you've had them on your friends list for a few years and remember them being nice and to not harass this person, even though you haven't seen them in a while.

The person you talked to's response to this is to be an egotistical skiddie and put me on KoS lists and crash lists and spread malicious rumors about me. This made the person I talked about rent free in my mind, and when they were in my friends world the ball pit world thing made with a shader, I was like "hey thats my friends world let me say hi"
Imagine as a result from saying hi they just go to another instance so you leave them all be and the next day you're unadded

What did I fucking do wrong it's not fair to be made to feel this way I was just trying to be the best I could be in a shit scenario, it's not fucking fair to treat your community that way what the actual fuck