I don't mind VCs but I would rather people not use them. We already hide our faces and names, hiding your voice too just takes it as far as possible to separate yourself from the people around you. Its harder to make meaningful relationships with people when those barriers are always up. Maybe you'll get a simp or two in the shortrun thinking you are a girl, but having meaningful friendships with the people around you can mean so much more. Its not about going cold turkey on using one, its about feeling comfortable enough to drop it at a moments notice with your friends. Every person who I've seen open up has been met with nothing but compliments and support