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wording, esoterical, philosophically
Depending on if you want to see a difference, there is a clearer line. If you are not open for this kind of dialog things like "this is bullshit" will cross your mind.
Both opinions are, as is often the case, valid.

Kind of sort of boild down to:
You can choose to love someone.
You can not choose to be in love with someone.