>>318665170
when everyone and their mother is at dance hours, and you dont want to really dance, it gets kind of hard to find much else to do sometimes. So you just end up going anyway, and hanging out. Not everyone wants to dance. Some people just want to hear the music and get the vibes. Dance hours are less about actually dancing and more about just something fun to do and party over.

as for randos, it kind of happens when we have a group this big. most people are not locked to a single friend group. Its hard to segregate that in a big event, unless you unironically start gatekeeping like those normie stripclubs people go to every weekend where its invite only and you have to friend a specific person or bot to get in. Which is some cancer shit.

use your safety settings. they exist for a reason. Start votekicks. those exist for a reason too. And if they dont go through, just deal with it.