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yes you're right from the other person's point of view it's torture to witness it from the side

but if it's the old relationship person initiating it by visiting you all the time, what are you supposed to do? just tell that person to fuck off?

and to generalize, lets say you're really close to lets say 5-6 people and love hanging with each of them individually, and suddenly one of them wants to take it further, does that mean you're forced to cut ties with all the others now?

there are two sides to this. being in a relationship with someone shouldn't mean suddenly becoming cold to all your other close friends, right?