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>However if you dress as some hot big tittied neko / anime whore and get praises, they aren't really praising you. They are praising your character, which isn't you. They want to touch their dick while looking at your avatar. Not you. 

This should really be emphasized. Even if you create a very nice avatar and get attention while in it, the attention is for the avatar, not you. It's roughly the same attention an artist gets for drawing a nice looking character, but vr makes that a bit harder to recognize because the tech muddies object/subject.

>but they like me because I can do X

And if that's what you know you want, that's fine, but if you realize you weren't after that and instead wanted something else you're not going to be satisfied here.