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Here's what I did:
>friend the people you know are actually /vrg/
>spend time hopping around instances, engage in game worlds, watch movies or shows you enjoy or may be interested in when they're hosted
>find the people you mesh with best and make it a point to spend a bit more time around them than other people, but don't hyperfocus and stick to them like glue because that's creepy no matter where you are
>even if you're shy, try to make it a point to express yourself in one way or another, like with dropping portals when people want to move on, do funny meme shit in the world you're in like bartending or just interacting with the environment around you with others, just make it a point not to be abrasive unless that's the crowd you want to attract
Social interaction and melding into groups of people is a process, one that takes different amounts of time depending on the type of person you are and the type of people they are.
I know some people where we clicked immediately and some who took over half a year to start coming out of their shells, but all of them are friends I wouldn't trade for the world.
Interested in playing games? Join lobbies and conversations about games. Interested in drinking? Follow the toasts on weekend instances. Want to watch things? Join the near daily instances of people who watch shit. Lewding? Go to /vrlg/ and put your bussy on tap.
I joined as an autistic fucker and while I still am, I now have cool autistic friends as well. You're gonna make it too anon.