>>321691741
I don't think it has anything to do with personality. It's true that there's so much shit being played that's being kept outside of the thread and I'll understand the ones that have limited lobby space, like Payday 2 until the big lobby mod is fixed, can't say about other ones (excluding Contractors).
The truth is that people found friends who they want to play with regularly and you are most likely not going to get into that group unless there's room and they like you.
Or you'll end up like me, having really good friends but of which none play anything other than VRChat. Lucky me.