>>347138634
my partners always distance themselves from me and cheat on me, what am I supposed to do? I don't want to be a cuck

apparently I'm an enabler, once I get close to someone I shower them with love unconditionally, and then they start taking me for granted and never giving anything back because they feel like they don't have to. I'm trying to work on this but it's really hard

however I've definitely learned that people with past relationship experience are more aware of the concept of reciprocation and allow me to be more "real" and just have fun together, without having to do dumb shit like "ok I can't be too nice to my partner today because they were rude to me recently and if I act nice I'll just teach them that they're allowed to treat me like shit and it's okay to keep doing it"