>>330624410
Anime characters have elongated proportions to match their impossibly thin and lithe body shape.
We don't look like monkeys despite having very monkey like proportions because we have wide bodies with wide shoulders. 
Men also have different proportions to women so if you give a female avatar male proportions it's still going to look weird.
Best bet is to get a realistic female model from a video game and match the anime female model to the realistic female model and just accept the fact that you will never be a woman so you won't ever be able to have perfect 1:1 body tracking with your female avatar.