The most important theme of the Christmas season is forgiveness, I think we could all do a better job practicing it. It's a very important thing in aging communities, since the number of experiences that we have with one another will pile up and not all of them will be positive. It's important to give people for past slights, and to let things you don't like slide. For everyone's sanity!

If you see someone doing something you don't like or see someone you don't like, it's far better to tolerate. I don't think you can ever build nice things or make things better with negativity.