>>331975190
my advice would be to practice with people in public worlds, they are harder to talk to but they also do not matter if you make any kind of plunders since you weren't friends with them yet to begin with
hang around people and get accustomed to loud noises and heated discussions, after you are able to tolerate loud conversations try to talk to people that have avatars you like or who seem like they won't call you the n-word or a faggot right off the bat and try to have a pleasant discussion about topics that are being currently discussed
some people don't like to talk to new people yet still hang out in public worlds so be prepared that they will still turn hostile if you go talk to them, if you tried to discuss with them with the best intention and they blow a fuse that's on them not on you if you tried to be polite