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see >>320107214. you learn to just assume guys want to date you, and learn to be upfront in letting them know you can't lead them on and have them orbit you thinking they have "a chance" but instead you value them as a friend first and foremost. it sets up a good friendship because they don't have to perform to be attractive enough as a mate and just can be themselves around you from the get go
it's probably why male/male relationships are so easy to come by here, seeing as is a male-centric comfort site and most people are likeminded and want the same thing you do but can settle for a gay relationship