>>271836942
one is not necessarily excluding another. if you want, you can be caring, empathethic, nurturing, while still letting yourself loose from time to time. depends on a person of course, some are more extreme than others, but in general i doubt you always have to pretend to be a careless, rough grugdom to please people who enjoy being degraded

[spoiler]okay okay, i'll fuck off to vrlg[/spoiler]