vrchat is pretty much habbo hotel in first person 3d with dress up barbie customization of self uploaded avatars, there are also avatar world for some stuff to get you going while you are still white name user and if you have 3 points with index and knuckles you can already do ERP better than destkop users, /vrlg/ down in trash has some meetup things occassionally or you can just go prowl pub worlds just watch out for kids and know that 99% of the time mutes are gay guys or jailbait