>>324592619
You're in VR so you can communicate any way you can communicate non-verbally. Gestures, facial expressions, writing, a sheet with letters on it you point to, whatever.

Maybe it fixed me because I was so unsuccessful that it clearly eliminated the variable of appearance. If you go in and have more success than you've ever had in real life, as some people have, then you might confuse it for success through being female.

I'd advise look at pictures of terrible trannies and remembering that's what you'll look like, not the anime girl you see in the VR mirror.