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It's quite different. They both have their problems, sure, if you think you're gonna find a relationship that doesn't involve work to maintain it you're playing yourself, but the things you deal with (apart from the universally human shit) are quite different.

For example, and this is only from my personal experience, ymmv: I find men tend to be more open about when things are bothering them and communicating their desires, whereas women tend to just expect you to know what you're doing and how they feel. Perhaps it's just easier for two guys to communicate I guess.

Men, especially the effeminate sort, tend to have more self image issues and confidence issues, which makes sense since they're going against societal norms which can really fuck with you. Also doesn't help that this particular group is on the younger side and are still grasping with finding their place in the world so they haven't quite learned which opinions to give a fuck about and which to ignore. Plus issues with many still living with families/parents and such which makes expressing yourself a lot more difficult.

The older/more independent the partner, the easier it becomes on both sides of the aisle, male or female.