>>338520652
i'm not saying go full body builder strong silent type, androgynous is being whole but if you have excess femininity then aiming to be a little more masculine by having positive role models can be helpful to achieve that
>>338520743
you're not supposed to be exactly "like them" you're just supposed to watch how they are and how they carry themselves, take the positive things about them and try to integrate those into yourself through understanding why they are like that
look at tolkien if you want to see a positive male role model