>spend time with someone
>try talking with them
>have to literally drag everything out of them
>have to keep asking them questions
>if I say more than one thing at a time they don't bother responding/answering to anything but very last few words
>every time they say something they kind of half ass it without finishing, explaining or giving any context
>basic conversation is borderline a chore
>every time I see them they have friends to play with, friends to talk to, people asking them for lewds, people asking them for a relationship
>I sit in the corner alone