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small tip for you anon:

I rejected around 10 people over the past few months, and about a month ago got together with someone. every single day in the past month that person has been telling me they've never been happier

here are some common traits of people I rejected:
* they only talk about themselves, never consider what I like or what is interesting for me
*they don't like doing things together with me unless it's on their terms
* I'm easily available for them to join on or hang out on, but they're not easily available for me. it's not clear when they're around or sometimes they're just in private a lot

the person I accepted:
* always uses blue status in vrc (except orange when with me sometimes)
* asks me how I'm doing, takes time to learn about my hobbies and interests
* finds stuff we both like that we can do together. we spend many hours doing together activities and have lots of laughs and fun

I'm not saying I know you or the person that rejected you, but, take some time to retrospect. clearly, you liked that person, but that person didn't like you. did you do anything to make them happier? did you ever make them feel like their life is better with you around? or was it one sided, that person always being nice to you, and you just taking it for granted?

good luck in the future