>>358081396
most people wont care what avatar you use unless its obnoxious / huge/ eye cancer / furry. 
if it was a video player there's a chance it just wont work for some people for whatever reason. also the fewer people there the less people will want to join. If you host something and no one really knows you or you didnt ping 3 different discords and give 3 days notice in advance, expect 2-4 people to join and actually stay.