>>360730781
There was a debate for sure and It is a good idea to always heir in the side of less rules. The solution seems to be to have the rule for the main and whatever side thing shouldn't be overt or shouldn't be known to those who like the event to be fully wholesome. (aka do it on your own time not during the event)

Note though that lewd gifts are ok. Just direct lewding/erp is not allowed. One of my favorite gifts from last year was the sexy homer simpson. Was a fucking grade-A shitpost.