>meet someone on vrchat
>we talk the whole night
>add eachother on discord
>talk for a few more weeks
>they show themselves, tells me to show myself when I feel ready
>they're nice and kinda flirty
>wasn't even wanting anything more than friends and didn't think about it until they themselves brought up the idea and that if we were to do it we would take it slow
>agree
>time passes
>i send a selfie while i'm at the gym
>the next evening they tell me they're not looking for a relationship and don't want to try the whole edating thing because of bad past experiences
it fucking hurts
i'm not even mad they won't date me it just feels the friendship is tarnished as if I did something wrong and they don't talk to me the same way anymore
i just fucking want some friends