>>359112808
the opposite can be true as well, someone once told me "go back to where you came from, you don't belong here" and i was resenting that for the longest time but then i realized after that guy was friend with me for a long time, they meant it they knew that i didn't belong here and wanted me to return to the place where people actually accepted me, they used a slur but those people accepted me i felt like i wasn't a pariah there, he meant what he said in the best way possible and i took it wrong, if i could go back i would thank them