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some people have their discord "on" but aren't there and only respond when they see it or it's convenient

some people are busy and don't like people constantly contacting them for attention and validation over every little thing so pretend not to see it so it doesn't happen so much

also if you give any kind of homo or thirsty vibe to people that aren't homo or are aren't interested they will actively try to keep responses in dm's to a minimum in order to not "lead you on"