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Why did you even go to a discord and view their chat?

Just enjoy time with the other autists here. Your first problem is flocking to the big meets. You don't enjoy big extroverted meets then don't go there and find the more reserved people.
Each one of us has a way to enjoy things. Let those who enjoy frat parties have their fun.
What you want is to not change those who are already enjoying themselves, rather find those you can enjoy things with.

/vrg/ is a very diverse group of people