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my point was that you are going to be spending a lot of time by yourself during your entire life and making peace with yourself makes it a lot easier, once you're fine being by yourself doing solo stuff alone for extended periods of time then being around other people is just a bonus, even if you would notice everyone is busy doing something else you can still just shrug it off and go do your own thing
most of the time the thing we actually want from others is their attention not their company, i've been in a room full of people and it still didn't feel like i was having a good time then i realized it was because i wasn't engaging others in discussion and thus they were pretty much "ignoring" me by being busy talking to others, this lack of attention and engagement made me feel mild grumpiness but when i realized what it was rooted from i couldn't help but chuckle to myself and my monkey instincts
it's not that bad to not get attention your instincts are made so you want it just because back in tribe days not being liked = exile and death, you won't die just because someone doesn't give you attention that instinct is outdated, if you want to be with people and engage in discourse and exchange of attention be interesting, funny or nice if you don't feel like being any of those three live vicariously through others 
https://youtu.be/BD2miskgDK4