>>348073873
I don't understand why people call it "predatory" like it's a bad thing when it's really just someone that has a positive first impression of you, proceeds to act nice to you, and then you become friends and get intimate. how is any of this "predatory" or bad in any way

>>348073747
why do you call it "exploiting"? how is being nice and friendly to someone an exploit?
also why do you think people are not allowed to have expectations? if I was being consistently nice to someone but that person didn't treat me nice at all, I'd be pretty upset by it. do you just let people step all over you and take you for granted? if the relationship isn't a two-way street then obviously the relationship is not going to continue for long, I don't think it's immoral to expect reciprocation