>>360817464
You have to do both.
Checking yes on a category means you are participating into that category. You can join up to three categories.

1) You can choose to send a christmas card to someone and receive a christmas card.
2)You can choose to send a gift to someone based on their wishlist, and receive a gift in return from your wishlist.
3)You can choose to prepare a physical gift for someone and ship it to their IRL address, and have something shipped to you IRL in return.
all 3 of these are independent of each other

Act quick anon. We'll be shuffling santas and targets in a few hours.