How do I not be a quote-on-quote "rando".

I thought the Discord / Thread is generally filled with nice people but it seems like you actually need to be part of some inner circle if you just wanna hang out without some retarded leaderfags thinking of you as a rando.

It's not like people outside of /vrg/ find their way inside those maps and if randos aren't desired, don't advertise them in the first place.

Apologies if I'm missing vital information, but that's generally what I gathered by lurking for a while.