>>317690375
>have to log in to vrchat
>have to log in to password manager first
>logged in, have to know what I'm doing because I'm new and don't understand how it works
>press the right button finally and it doesn't launch the game properly
>press the right button and it finally loads the world properly
>its empty
>too nervous to post in the thread again
>finally post again asking whats up or for a new link
>wait for ages for someone to finally check the thread and be kind enough to post the link
>later notice the post and try again, another empty instance
>people have moved again so need yet another new link
>miraculously finally get into an instance via a link after an hour or so of waiting and troubleshooting
>don't know anybody, have nobody to vouch for me
>nobody talks to me because they assume I'm a rando who wandered in via someone else
>leave because too nervous to talk to anyone
>didn't add anyone so nobody to join on next time
>have to go through all this shit again if I wanted to join again
>don't bother

vs

>someone namedrops and add them
>join on them a minute later
>they greet and welcome me, get to know me a little be and introduce me to people
>instantly integrated and have people I know and can join on in the future

Which is better?