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>How do I improve my sexual desirability?
>I want a deeper connection with someone than just cooming
Pick one. The main draw of VR lewding is it allows rampant sluttery without ruining your life. If the worm you bait your hook with is a penis, you'll catch fish that are looking to eat cocks. If you want a deeper connection you must instead find people who want that, and be capable of sustaining such a connection yourself. Neither is easy so most people take the easy route.