>>361651394
It's not really with men, it's with something virtual that is female but interpreted by a men.
As I implied in my previous post, I believe that being a vr coomer can be harmful for many reasons (addiction, give a twisted vision of the world when it comes to relationships, self deprecation that can result from it, ...) and it's worse than other harmful behaviours as you need to make other people fall to keep doing it.

>>361651715
>Never say never because I might but If I do it's not gay!!! Because urm the pixels are girly.
I'll be honest, the only reason I added this part is because I know that I'm an easily depressed individual and if I reach a low point of mental health, I know I might be able to fall. 
It being gay or not is not a big concern on my end, reasons why i'm defending the coomers on that part is that I don't want them to eventually deal with an identity crisis on top of the other problems of vr cooming