>lurk the thread for over 2 years now, post sometimes too
>don't really go to meetups often because of working a full time job and having a timezone that's pretty incompatible with meetup times, hang out with many vrgfriends in more quiet hours but not during the big meetup times
>in the rare occasion of going to big meetups, sometimes people who never read the thread and just know each other from discord and were only around for 1-2 months call you a rando because they're too new than to recognize you

uhh