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I used to think exactly like you until I met my vrfu

here's what I think now
I'm convinced my vrfu won't catch feelings for anyone else, because they have a specific taste, that I just happen to fall into, and other people just kind of bore them

it's pretty much the same for me. I feel like spending time with other people is a waste of time when I could be with my vrfu instead

our exclusivity is not us pressuring each other to be together, we just literally prefer each other over other people. we were together all the time and felt this way even before we made it "official". the only reason we did is because we kind of realized it's pretty much what we have going anyway after over a month of hanging out together

the problem you're describing is people who force themselves into exclusivity with someone when they really just haven't found the right person yet, but they feel pressured to be in a relationship because society makes it sound like a cool thing you should do. so they force themselves to do it with someone they had one random good experience with who isn't really someone they generally like

the truth is exclusivity really sucks unless you're with a person you actually like, and it's not easy to find that person, you'll have to shuffle through many people. give it time and don't rush things. you're shooting yourself in the foot if you're being exclusive with someone and have doubts about it. when you find the right person you'll have zero doubts