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I've noticed that everything gets overblown here. You'd think the world was ending the amount people whinge and complain any time anyone tries to organise anything. I think this is honestly the result of having a community with a large autistic population, every tiny complaint/criticism that each individual person has they feel the need to voice it in the thread and then argue about it endlessly. I remember last secret santa people arguing and actually getting angry about the shape of the fucking present boxes which fucking blew me away. That's an extreme example but every every time anything is hosted or organised I see people nitpicking endlessly even when they aren't interested in the event in the first place and it kind of annoys me. Like the person in this thread complaining about the DJ event that they aren't even going to, they just don't like the fact that other people might attend, that shit comes off as either massively entitled or just highly autistic.

Obviously criticism is important but I think people here would do well to think about whether it's worth posting their criticism or not. If it's a tiny thing in an event that you are interested in it might be better to just shut up and enjoy it and if it's some fundamental issue that you really disagree with it might just not be something you are interested in so you don't need to complain anyway, you can just do something else.

Anyway, don't take this as some event organiser that's fed up and doesn't appreciate their audience, I've never hosted anything, this is just a trend I've noticed from the outside and I think a lot of people here are probably just innocently doing it without even realising.