>>273765434
blade and sorcery is the gold standard for realistic VR melee combat, lots of mod support as well. There are usually a bunch of streamables for it some anon posts that are collected in the site in the OP, but haven't seen as much lately

There's also GORN if you'd prefer cartoony floppy weapons, and there's another arena shooter with skeletons and stuff. swords of gargantia has gamey melee combat, as does asgard's wrath. The rec room quests are quite fun with friends, even though it's just waggling.