>>419412970
There's the UEVR or vr essentials modpack on wabbajack which covers basically all the essentials and some more.
at the bare minimum you NEED:
- Unofficial patches, both basegame and VR
- Skyrim script extender VR
- Any alternate start mod, Alternate Start live another life works with some minor tweaks but the author is a whiny bitch about the VR version and removed VR-compatible builds on purpose.
- MageVR
- VRIK
- HIGGS
- Spellsiphon (this one is a fucking gamechanger)
The skyrimvr subreddit has a recommended modlist as well

The vanilla intro sequence will most likely break if you don't use an alternate start mod. Realms of Lorkhan is much more open and welcoming for the VR version of the game but overall I find this a worse and kinda goofy experience.