So I finally got back into VRC and picked up XS Overlay. I purposely went to a world that has lots of people and always gives me insane lag and FPS drops to 15-20 FPS and with the overlay stats it seems my CPU isn't really being taxed nor is my GPU, CPU was barely at 60% usage and in the green..

however it seems my RAM is the problem as XS Overlay was showing it nearly capped and red. 

So put simply, what mods can I use or what can I do (besides buying better/more RAM) to improve this? I know if I can get this RAM shit under control it'll help me play vrc a lot smoother but idk what even specifically taxes RAM so much and what I can do to actually help it out. I currently have 16GB but that doesn't seem to be enough and I'm too broke right now to buy more