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have you expressed interest in vrbf stuff with any specific people, if people flirt with me i assume they just want the dickens from me for that occasion, starting any relationship requires one party to voice their desire to do so which can lead to a let down or a new relationship but at least you don't have to wonder which it would be anymore
tldr; talk to people and tell them how you feel (and be prepared for a let down, if you go in with your head in the clouds the crash down may be pretty unclean, speaking from experience)