>>316393096
if you have to fake all the time eventually you'll just grow tired of faking it and then your peers feel betrayed and drift away because you were not what you lead them to believe you are, it will just end up as a waste of both sides time
if you eat the bee's from the get go you will meet people who naturally click with you and you don't have to keep effort into being something you are not, you won't be as popular as you would be otherwise but at least you don't feel like a con man on stage trying to do a magic trick