Is it important to select an avatar that accurately represents your personality? 

I'd imagine that if you select an avatar that's very cute then this makes it easier for you to approach people and inject yourself into conversations, but the downside is that it infantilizes you in the eyes of other people. Maybe I'm wrong, but I bet that none of the VR girls have any interest in a guy who uses an anime girl avatar or a cute baby animal or anything like that because it causes her to conceptualize you as something small and defenseless that maybe she would want to protect and befriend, but never anything more than that.

what's the ideal avatar type for a male that wants to come off as a normal, chill person and not overly macho or overly feminine?