>>345959179
It's been like this for over two years now, which is most of this community's existence. Things are fine if you just keep it to VRChat and don't worry about who's in what Discord server or who's fucking whom.
I will admit I get a little feeling of betrayal when I find out my friends are all doing something I would have liked doing with them away in a server I didn't know existed but they're all in, but that's just the way it goes. No one invites you to Discords and they're not visible, you have to ask around for invites.