>>405269218
>I know I won't
That would make you an asshole.
It will be a common courtesy to use female voice with female avatar. 
If you use male ava thats fine, but if it's an anime girl it will be very rude to force man voice on people.
>irl meets
why would you ever go to those? 
the whole point of VR is to have meet in VR space where the users looks and sounds the way they want and that is how their friends see them.Not as a gross neckbeard, but as a cute anime girl. VR will never work if irl meets exist.