genuine question: if i am legitimately a tranny and it's obvious from my name even, should i even bother trying to join any public meetups or will i just get laughed out of the room

i don't care if anyone gives me shit for it, i can take the abuse, quoting the percentage or saying you will never be a woman or whatever

i just want to hang out and chill with /vrg/ but i feel like it's not even worth bothering