>>277557624
Maybe you are boring. I'm super boring to most people myself, but guess what? That one thing that excites you that most people find boring to talk about? There's someone else who is also excited by it. There's 10000 people who play VRChat every single day, chances aren't so bad that you share something you are excited about with someone there, and that one person is already enough for some people. 
The only question is then whether you'll be able to find that person, and admittedly everyone being in friends+ instances makes it harder, but also do consider that in real life you are friends of friends with everyone on the world through 5 to 7 links. That's probably much moreso true in VRChat. I find it very intriguing to observe who is friends with whom and it is not unusual for me to find a pretty close connection of my friends to an arbitrary player I've never met before.

Bottom line is, there are players you'll enjoy spending time with and you can find them.