>>274932947
You missed his point and made it about you, when he was saying "you" as a metaphorical party of the supposed "victim." The "victim" entered a social contract where he was supposed to give the most minimal amount of effort over three weeks creating something for another person in order to receive something in return. Neglecting to do it, despite the time, resources, and creative ability (or at least the backing) of a supportive creative community is a dick thing to do if you don't back out early. If you not knowing the person you got as a target well was your excuse for not making something, you should have tried talking to them over the month you had to create something, asked for help from a friend you can confide in, or at the very least folded your hand early enough for something to be done.

There's no reason to grinch someone for Secret Santa. You, and once again "you" is referred to as the "victim of "blackmail" and/or the grinch", signed up for it.