>>385264962
Realistically there's only three options:

1) join /vrg/ through a group that exists outside of it. This isn't really an option any more, but in the early days almost all of /vrg/ originated from a handful of generals or discord servers and knew at least one person before ever logging in.

2) get a load of attention for being new and use this to enter a group that exists outside of VRchat that you can use to keep in contact with others. The newfag attention isn't guaranteed so if that didn't happen within days of you first joining, you're already considered background scenery.

3) log in extremely consistently and often so that even if you do absolutely nothing but sit in silence in the corner, people will remember seeing you before and you'll eventually end up in some kind of situation where they interact with you, and the effect of this happening many times will eventually see you recognized as a regular.