>>342107456
no one likes (you)rself you dumb idiot, if people act nice to you it's only because they want something from you, even if only to brag that you're their friend to others to make themselves look better

except the average vrc life failure who sits on their pc all day in their mom's house, has no job and no college degree, knows very little about the world outside of what they see in memes, is mediocre at best in all of however little hobbies they have, is out of shape and is probably either obese or ugly or otherwise unpleasant to look at, has nothing desirable about them

telling someone to "just be yourself" is like a lottery winner telling someone "just play the lottery if you want to make money"

don't fucking "be yourself", if your "self" was a cool person everybody likes then you wouldn't be asking for advice on how to be more likable, you'd already be that to begin with. instead, become the best version of yourself that you can offer to others

now I could just tell people
- go get a job
- pursue higher education
- work out regularly for 1 hour per day
- keep track of fashion in your area and do your hair, buy fashionable clothes, etc
- use your spare free time to read about your hobbies, find idol figures that people admire in those hobbies, review and analyze your performance and try to improve your level to get closer to your idols, etc

and by doing that, if someone actually keeps it up for 1-2 years, they'll actually be able to just "be themselves". they'll literally just go and say "hello" to someone and that person would instantly like them because at that point they'll be cool and desirable

but we both know most people here are too fucking lazy and have no self control or discipline to do that, this is why their life is so shitty to begin with. so at best they can at least give others positive attention and be likable from that, because that's stupidly easy to do even for the most retarded monkey brains out there