>>401017034
>It is the norm because most men wants to be dominant.
out of all the polls I have seen, men's preferences are mostly dominant, but they vary a bit. women are almost universally subs. hence the somewhat-recent uptick in communities that focus solely on GFD/RR, disproportionately inhabited by men. and why straight women dislike bi men (it implies they might be submissive to other men), whereas gay men hold no such feelings towards bi men. why a common theme in any budding lesbian relationship is "wait shit, who gets to be the bottom/sub?" (this is seriously a running gag in those communities).
and again - i hold that men usually prefer shorter women, but there are plenty of men that also prefer same height, don't really care, or prefer taller women.
while men generally prefer subs, this is nowhere near as disproportionate as the amount of women that exclusively want doms and will not settle for anything less.
>>401017673
this is pretty much my exact experience too.

tl;dr: discovering that I'm gay has saved me from becoming a completely loveless incel and now i get to meet cute guys instead who will spoil me and take charge