don't be too disheartened if your personality is really "mild", people will still appreciate you for it if that is the "real" you, i used to think my personality was that of a tough guy of grit and stoicism but it ends up i have a soft spot for "being nice" so i combined the two to a bizarre tough love personality, this way i can wear my mask and do good when i feel like it, downside is i am really preachy and most people find that really annoying but eh better that than a fake
https://youtu.be/H6yQOs93Cgg