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Don't be afraid to try out Mahjong Soul too. It's more or less exactly the same as vrc mahjong. You can play it on PC, phone, and even vr overlay if you're fancy. Tilegun is probably the most user-friendly since it has a bunch of QoL newbie stuff. I'm experimenting with the new v24 update of the Mahjong prefab for Rinshan parlor, too so it finally hopefully has eng/jp toggles. I always tell newfrens the less you know the better and to usually keep hands closed starting out until you reach an intermediate level. 

tl;dr discard the cringe tiles, keep the based tiles. It's as truly shrimple as that.