>>380982673
yes. make sure you have melonloader and install network sanity and advanced safety. this makes you immune to 90% of crashers. you can go the extra mile and install true shader anticrash too, but this one is slightly more invasive.
if you catch wind of anyone trying to crash someone else, kick them instantly if you're the instance owner and otherwise start a votekick. don't tolerate this shitter behavior at meetups.