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Despite what the memes would make you believe, autistic "cute wallflowers" are a dime a dozen and have almost zero intrinsic value. People think that by being a shy uguu kawaii corner sitting wallflower someone is going to come sweep them off their feet and groom them or whatever their gay fantasy is, but the reality is that "grooming" a completely socially deficient person is inherently a lot of work, and unless someone has a fetish specifically for that, few people are going to bother with that shit when they could instead just go hang out with people who aren't a brick wall. 

This isn't real life where people will take the time and effort to break through your "tough exterior" if you're shy but are cute. If you're uninteresting and standoffish here, people will just shrug their shoulders and go spend time with people who they can actually have a conversation with.