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Wabbajack has a very good one, there's a VR essentials pack there. The skyrimVR subreddit has a pinned google docs list of essential mods as well. The VR essentials pack is what you'd want to start with.
But to be frank, I personally went with all the recommended VR essentials and then added a shitton of other stuff on top of it (avoiding anything that was explicitly not VR-compatible). I think the modding was almost as fun as the playing itself. And I'm still not even close to done with my playthrough (30+ hours in).