>>337682304
Jesus christ. The way you wrote and paced the first paragraph, it could be made into a short movie/comic. 
As for the second paragraph, I reckon everyone has had one of those "what am I doing with my life" dreams. Yours was just extremely apparent.
It's up to you to decide if you wish to continue doing what you're doing, or to walk away and attempt to start a new chapter in your life. I think the most important thing that you can achieve in your life is being content with who you are and what you're doing. Meaning that as long as you enjoy spending time with your VR friends then it's not a bad thing. If you're scared that you're going to regret spending your free time in VR, then it wouldn't hurt to take a step back.