My entirely subjective review of VRChat
Hello one and all! (GIGA-WALL OF TEXT incoming - TLDR down below)

Before I begin the VRChat talk, let me give you a bit of background on myself...

I'm 25+ years old, male and I've done a lot of things in life ranging from programming to gaming, drinking with friends, girls, work buddies, random people, working, watching anime (especially feels trains), star trek, living solo, living with someone e.t.c. What I'm trying to sum up there is - I've experienced most things that I find "key" to having 'been alive' (dont worry, there's no dark twist coming).
So recently, I've noticed a slight 'gaming apathy' hit me... and I couldn't quite put my finger on why it is that I didn't want to play games anymore... I've built a beastly rig and somehow nothing tickles me in that very non-specific way my brain is seeking.
Then I got VR (Rift S)... and after 5 VR games played, I got VRChat.
And this is where my review begins -

VRChat taught me a couple of things I didn't realise I... wanted to do/see/observe(?) -

I was no longer seeking 'new games', no - I was seeking new experiences; something different and interesting.

I always played female characters in games (where this option existed) - because I don't mentally place myself into the game, I rather follow aesthetics and what seems most appealing to me (like dressing up a female character in really, really cool ways). This is also the case for me in VRChat - I use female avatars as I could not connect with a male one at all.

I didn't know that I like dancing - or rather - I had a mental hang-up about dancing because I felt I would seem rather feminine if I did so.

I am attracted to shiny lights when its done with style (hair with strands that have shaders e.t.c.)