>>347140209
see it's insidious isn't it, why do you think normies always rag on people in their teens to get laid and to get a gf as soon as possible? it's because of this effect, after certain time if you still remain single you "missed your chance" and the longer you are single the creepier it will look and that's all thanks to "why has no one dated them before? they seem nice" that question is the fire in which they burn, anyone who dates them will have to look past that question and take a leap of faith, the sad thing is people who have been single for very long and haven't experienced dating before tend to be awful at reciprocation when it comes to relationship thus they tend to botch the relationship attempt only "reinforcing" the big "why are they single?" with a negative example
i don't have a known cure for that except take a leap of faith, fall flat on your face and dust yourself off? you can't help these people unless you are lucky and they have not been poisoned by their solitude