My boyfriend is a vrchat "dancer"

LMAO SO! I've been dating my bf for over a year now and he's always been into vrchat and plays it for hours and cool good for him. Glad he enjoys it. He actually networks there and conducts business stuff. I find it kinda funny, but hey if it works then cool! Grow ur business my dude!

But lately it's just getting weirder. He's always liked anime and I have no problem with that (I'm not a huge fan of it myself but I respect his interests). But good god this is weird to say but uh I'm jealous of a fucking anime character?? Shes all over his walls! And his phone screens! And he has a body pillow of her! And it's a little bit disturbing to me. Like hey I know shes fake but! Why have i never been the background to his phone.... I dont get it. Should I be upset? Is it ridiculous to be upset about this? THIS ISNT EVEN WHAT THIS POST IS ABOUT!

So a couple weeks ago we were talking (through text) and he said something about dancing on vrchat. And I was like aw that sounds fun. Thinkin little flash mobs and stuff. And he said he practices with other people and they go to events and perform. And I was like aw cute lil dance routines! I thought it was a lil weird and childish but I wasnt gonna judge.

Then as a joke he was sending me gifs from magic Mike and I jus thought it was funny didnt think much of it. And then he said he had to go cuz he was gonna go practice cuz its really hard to do and requires a lot of practice and talent. Ok? Coolio I thought. Go have fun!

Then I get curious. I was like what is this "vrchat dancing" why is it so serious. He had mentioned something about clubs and he even said that "strippers use it for practice". My simpleton mind still thought that HE was jus doin cute lil dance routines with people.