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[part 1]

how to get a person(in vrchat) to talk to you and lewd you 101

1. use a popular avatar you like from the first 2-3 pages on booth (sorted by "most popular") with slight edits so that it's not just the original avatar, even simple texture recoloring would be fine, if you change the outfit to something cute and uncommon even better but not required

popular avatar = increase the pool size of other people that also like it
modifications = make yourself unique and stand out, not just be another clone

https://booth.pm/en/browse/3D%20Models

2. stay quiet, don't talk unless talked to, act shy when replying but don't act like an idiot, give clear replies and use your brain, if you don't know something say you don't know, if you do know don't be afraid to share your two cents, contrary to popular belief acting retarded is not cute it just makes people disrespect you and treat you like a clown

3. target one specific person at a time, people who try to do everything at once never get any success. pick a person that you want to talk to you and lewd you and mentally make them your target

4. subtly imitate your target's behavior without being obnoxious about it. for example if they tilt their head to the side, tilt your head to the same side too. make sure it's subtle because if you make it too obvious it'll just be cringe

5. never talk about yourself unless asked. each time you do it you get a negative penalty and they stop caring about you. ideally you want them to know as little as possible about you, so that they can autocomplete all the missing information with their own fantasy of who they want you to be. it's okay to reveal small unimportant details so that you don't come off as secretive but basically don't talk about yourself unless asked directly, or if they already said they like something and you happen to be that thing or like that thing too