The actual problem here, and one you don't seem to have admitted, is that every single headset manufacturer has cucked to Valve and is a SteamVR device, except Oculus, which isn't a native SteamVR device (And yet still has the option of supporting it through a compatibility layer developed at their expense)

Everyone is paying Valve for the pleasure of being allowed to run steam titles on their headsets. Oculus didn't, therefore releases their titles without SteamVR, which means they can't release them on steam anyway, and they're the bad guys. 

So really you're mad that Oculus didn't bend the knee to Gaben. At least lets be fucking clear. 

And, in the end, when titles are released on OpenXR it's going to be a moot point anyway. Which by the way, you can thank Oculus for, not Valve because they sure as shit weren't going to do it on their own when they already have a deathgrip on the fucking platform.