>>271961174
I think it's probably the way you do it, or approach it.

For example, hypothetically, if you had some kind of motherly avatar and cuddle with people in that manner they will still probably get jealous but with less drama.
On the other hand, if you're that skimpy tattoo'd titty girl #2495 going around cuddling with people you will definitely not give the same vibes to people and they will just see you as a cuddle-slut, as funny as this word sounds.

Those are just broad examples. If you have, instead of the okaa-sanTM one I talked about earlier, some kind of cute girl avatar that just gives the *cute and sweet girl* vibe people will probably be able to get the idea since they will understand that it's just how you are.
It still won't protect you from the mother fetishists or the want-to-soiled-a-sweet-girl fetishists, and VRchat is just full of fetishists, at least on the outside. In the end, human interactions have never been something easy otherwise drama wouldn't exist.