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>make sure to exchange selfies before it gets real
This. Holy shit this. People can fall in love with personalities alone on the internet. Deep love. However if no real pictures aren't shared then the other person builds an image in their mind. This leads to them expecting you to look like an absolutely dreamy image. You will 100% disappoint them once you give them a real image. They will hide it for a while, that they are disgusted, but eventually they'll put distance between you and them and suddenly they vanish from your radar. They might even give you a fake excuse. 

It's best to be open if you're serious. If the other person lives like half across the world, then just consider that you might not ever meet. Consider shit like age difference, education, intelligence and such. Those are limiting factors. Once you think it all matches and you both like each other, share pics, and if she is still into you after a month then you're in the smooth sailing part. Not before though. 

Finding a woman (or a man for faggots) that doesn't care at all what you physically look like is like finding the rarest of unicorns. They don't exist, basically. 

If this bothers you, then improve yourself. Workout. Diet. Exercise. Groom. Go to the barber. Buy good clothes. Get a better job. Don't cry and wallop in self pity if you think there's something you can do about it. 

Also all FBT in VRchat seem to all be slutty whores. They most likely don't even think ERP'ing or slutting up to others is cheating. Don't date anyone with FBT and who garnishes everyones attention with "strip dancing". They are 100% degenarate whores who aren't worthy of any real emotions as they lack them all together and only get excitement for being treated like objects.