>>344848410
you're being unfair, don't blame others for not pushing you.

my experience from pushing people is that they start to hate you for trying to regulate how they should live their life. every time they feel tired and want to chill but then remember they didn't finish that task you assigned them, they secretly start to hate you because they feel pressured by you.

so really, don't expect people to push you. usually it just ruins friendships. instead, assume that people are giving you a chance by being patient for your shortcomings, and return their favor by pushing yourself on your own. never take people's niceness for granted.