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or you can actually care and remember every single person that ever said anything to you and every single thing they've ever said to you, because deep down you actually care,

but also have an understanding that people are different and have their own life circumstances and that people can sometimes be stupid or change their minds about things,

so anything someone says that isn't nice doesn't offend you, you're able to have the bigger perspective, and move on knowing that you'll still have fun times again in the future