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>he doesn't enjoy what I like therefore it isn't real happiness!

Sorry but for me mate the cons of relationships outweigh any of the benefits which amount to occasionally not having to cook for myself, and the semi-autonomous flesh sack fetching me water when I have the flu and if you're lucky will run an errand or two when they get around to it. Cuddling is more of an annoyance than it is anything else and sharing a bed is one of the worst things especially if they are a light sleeper/snore/blanket hog.
I'd rather embrace comfortably and genuine happiness than sacrifice that for lackluster benefits and decent regular conversation which I imagine dies out/ gets old in 5-10 years anyways.