>>322155572
Sorry buddy, but you need to stop thinking in extremes. Failures don't mean parental abuse, that's just not a fair scenario. You cannot deny someone who went through that is empathetic to others. Whereas someone who didn't, is more likely to not be empathetic.

Now, lets apply this to less extreme scenarios...
Someone who's tried and succeeded, they will say it was easy.
Someone who tries, fails, get fucked by life out of their control and eventually succeeds, would be more likely to be empathetic to the abused by parent person. For they understand hardship.

This mean people who experience less harsh hardships can empathize with people who are in worse off scenarios, the ones who just succeeded with ease, they have no empathy, they never got to face failure and have it mold them.