>>384743513
Lol no. That is just a coomer. 
A groomer is someone who actually tries to manipulate you into doing things you dont want to do. 
For example you feel uncomfortable doing gay stuff in vr, a friend or a coomer would just accept that and let you discover things for yourself or wait until you come forward to talk to them about these things. 
A groomer, however, would tell you how good and normal erp is constantly, and how they would be honored to be your first and how they will teach you how to do it. and if you say no, they will keep pushing you towards it and try to guilt trip you.