>>359044219
For 4 the truth is that he didn't tell you, is you have to read the room. Are those people there for (YOU) as in anyone who joined off you might follow you to the cool event and meet new people, otherwise they're fine with what they WERE doing and thats fine, too, maybe I'd rather join their activity. It's why I joined them. I join people I wanna join their festiivties with, be it generic socialization, or something more profound