>start talking to someone who seems like a bit of an outcast at the vrc meetups
>decide to help them out
>introduce them to people, teach them stuff about the community
>make sure that they're comfortable and included in conversations at meetups
>check up on them regularly in dms to make sure they're doing okay
>eventually they break down and confess that they want me to be their vrfu

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaand now I have to drop them. I swear, this is like the third time this has happened. Is the concept of friendship really just so foreign to people that they fall in love with the first person to show them any kindness at all? It's annoying when people ruin friendships like this.