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Ah that's quite reasonable. Yep, I do agree that it can't just be exclusively a love for your own family. There needs to be some to give to the other parts of the community. This is healthy.

But if you cannot love your own kids first then you surely can't have enough love to give for the others of the community and your own line of altruism dies and ends with you. So in order for the good people with overflowing altruism for the surrounding community to exist, they first need to take care of their own good loving family.