>>321638527
Sounds like the classic tale of overthinking something simple. Shame. Only advice I can offer is to embrace the masquerade and try not to think at all. 
>>321638689
That holds true in real life, but this is more like a giant parade or DRUK party. just bounce from group to group until you find one that starts talking about something you can relate to. The only people I've seen actively rejected were squeakers using noisy or obstructing avatars. Try to dance about and don't overthink it.