why do people complain about groomers in vrchat?

I've been pretty depressed lately, feeling down and unmotivated in life. but recently someone started grooming me, acting in ways that clearly seem like they are, and even people around them constantly call them out on it

but from my perspective - the person is being nice to me, always giving me compliments, pays attention to me in an instance, invites me to hang out... I feel a lot happier lately. being on vrchat recently has been making me smile and feel good on the inside. I'm actually looking forward to get out of bed and do things now thanks to this

that person didn't even ask me to do anything lewd yet, but honestly at this point if they did I wouldn't be against it, feels like a fair trade in return for being this nice to me and making me a happier person in general, in fact I'd be happy to see the person making me happy have a good time too

is grooming really bad?