>>334943005
That's normal. 
VRChat is the perfect storm of bad performance.
>Highly demanding niche form of gaming using a peripheral that by default uses more resources in rendering than simple screen.
>Made in the least performant publicly available game engine
>Made by incompetent lazy developers
>All map content created by amateurs that don't understand or don't care for performance and just want to make the prettiest map with the most gimmicks so people actually use it.
>VRG meetups where there's 20 to 80 people in the instance usually in the prettiest map with the most gimmicks
>Meetups are full of booth avatars where covered in dynamic bones made by people who have long given up creating performant avatars because they just want to make pretty avatars with the latest gimmicks in order to get sales
There's nothing wrong with your 16gb ram 3070 8gb vram computer rig. Everyone is suffering or they have everyone blocked except the handful of coomers they orbit.