>>302641652
its not that much effort for everyone, some people thrive in large meets and the ability to bounce around to multiple conversation suits them

Small meets are comfy, but personally i find myself losing interest pretty quick, its like a tv with 2 channels, if those two channels aren't playing anything you're interested in you're kind of shit out of luck unless you wanna try to wrangle the conversation into a direction you like, which is pretty selfish/rude