>>339793318
you can never understand other people and the lesson you're supposed to learn from all your past failures is to stop trying to
look for the moments in your life where things worked out for you and ask yourself how are these different from the times when things didn't
if each of your relationship has ended in failure so far what makes you believe that a few more is going to make any difference?
you are living a gamblers fallacy, sunken cost fallacy, you believe that because you have tried so many times and lost so many times it is only a matter of time before you will hit the jackpot, the odds don't increase with the rolls per se, the reason you're unwilling to face reality is that you've already wasted so much of your time and effort into finding love, to quit now would be unacceptable
but that is exactly what you must do to be free from the feeling of failure, if nothing ever works the only way to fix that is to stop trying, the system wasn't made to be brute forced
you were born broken and nothing in this world is going to fix you, you are doomed to be unsuccessful and alone and others telling you otherwise is just them making themselves feel better about it