>>336462456
if someone goes through the trouble of being cute it is rude of you to assume them to have to pull a personality on the side, that's just greedy
if you're a top you have to have a personality and hopefully be funny / witty too, that's just how it goes bottoms tend to be all about the cute / looks combo
it's a dynamic that works, the bottoms are venus fly traps and the tops are prowlers that find cute and try to hit on it
as long as everything is consensual the dynamic works, i won't even get into the discussion of the bdsm shades of grey bullshit some get into
safe bet is to be gentledom and only into consensual stuff, the risk of hurting someone with non-con is not worth the reward of getting some random jerkoff off on their rape fetish