>>321391281
>I treat vrchat the same as I do real life
And that's why you're an autist anon. Vrchat is not real life, it's very far from it. In real life you don't have people just throwing themselves at you asking to lewd in a moments notice. 

What you need to understand is that while you treat the game like real life, 99% of the other people playing do not. They treat it as a social game to hang out with others and potentially lewd with them. And people do not want to be tied down while playing a social game. So if you get too clingy or annoying, they'll either just remove you or set their status to orange and ghost you