>>291207231
no, 100% take it personally
unless they just blatantly didnt get the friend request, so send them a friend request while announcing you did it, and if it doesnt go through ask them to check if they can send one, if it doesnt work, then check the API/VRCx to see if you're added in the friend log, chances are you're added and it hasnt gone through, proudly anounce "Yeah I checked vrcx it went through just taking a bit to update in game"
This is so they can't use the "it didnt go through" excuse and you know for a 100% fact they didnt add you and can cry about it