>>274194593

This
>>274194538

You can’t just be friends by only caring about your own problems. See it from their perspective, some weird loner joins the group...does say shit and just stands around. What benefits does that has to the conversation?

You have to give before you can get. Be funny, tell an interesting story or fact and for god sake listen to the conversation and follow the subject matter. How hard is it to just stop for 2 seconds and think about something other than your own ego.