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Autogynophilia
it's a desperation online of needing affection and not receiving it because there are too many males in society currently (normally they would die off as greater risk takers and lack of modern medicine) and 80% of the women are competing for 20% of the men. 
So, gay men and straight men alike, with VR fueling the distortion of self image, come to feel more comfortable when perceived as a woman. 
It's a real thing. Is it bad? maybe when you make permanent changes for temporary mental states.