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desktop users have to install the VR mod, enter the BepInEx config file for the VR mod, and set nonVrPlayer to True in order for VR IK to transmit while in flat mode
also if you end up experiencing lag while hosting a server, I highly recommend following this guide to increase the send/receive limit. it's the only way playing through the game has been possible in the SEA playthrough!
https://jamesachambers.com/revisiting-fixing-valheim-lag-modifying-send-receive-limits/