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If you do the former, people who reject you immediately wouldn't be friendly enough to be worthwhile companions anyway. If you do the latter, you'll never feel truly comfortable around your "friends" and you'll cause them to cast doubt on your true personality and mannerisms when you inevitably have to throw the curtain back. You do the math.
[spoiler]If, despite this, you can't make any friends while being yourself you may want todo some deep introspection about yourself.[/spoiler]