>>275027879
Go to a public world, have some drinks with the locals, and be cooler and more alpha than all the other anime girls (male) in the room. Give the girl (it's always just one) enough attention to know you're interested but not enough to be a pathetic orbiter like everyone else in the room. Invite her to a friends+ or private instance with your much cooler, exclusive group of friends who are engaged in numerous pro-social party activities, so that she feels she gains socially by knowing you. Add her on Discord and chat about lewd stuff after like a week. Once you're both comfortable with each other ask if she wants to be your VR GF. You need to move on to swapping IRL lewd pics shortly after this if you don't want to get cucked by IRL Chad.

Basically, it's exactly the same as getting an IRL GF, except that you're competing with 10x more men and everyone is wearing anime cosplay.
Unless you don't mind girls(male) in which case just taken one to the Nepbar and ask to be exclusive if it goes well.