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doing the most you can for your friends where you have the power to do it and living a healthy life to the best extent of your ability without getting depressed over stuff outside of your control is being a psycho?

it has become some sort of a norm in /vrg/ to throw around the word "psycho" in places where what you really should be saying is "mentally stable".

stop being a manchild. stop thinking real life is a disney fairy tale. this is not how it works. part of growing up and being an adult is having perspective on things and knowing how to accept reality for what it is.

crying over your friend isn't going to help them. inviting your friend to hang out if they like doing that will do a lot more. if they can't because of their condition or they simply don't like it, then no reason to do it. this isn't being a psycho, this is just being realistic.

just because people didn't shed a tear when your life sucks doesn't mean they don't care about you. this is not how caring works. stop having an entitled mentality and focus on facts instead.