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>my lover
>I'm not saying you should be in a poly relationship
No, you're an idiot for being mono and getting into a poly relationship. Use your words. Talk with the person you're interested in. Determine what the boundaries are. Determine if you even have *any* chance of being compatible, or if you are fundamentally incompatible.
And, as previously mentioned
>Cheating isn't polyamory, it's just cheating.
[spoiler]If I could handle poly, I'd be all over the stupid masso sub bitch, but I know I can't and so I don't get involved.[/spoiler]