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It's like jumping into a pool when it's chilly. It won't be as bad as your brain is telling you it will. It also usually helps if you're sharing some kind of task with the other person and you're not just walking up to a stranger and trying to start a conversation, which is why I'd recommend AN ACTUAL FUCKING VIDEO GAME like Pavlov or the frisbee golf thing in recroom for socializing over VRchat. It's also why it's more common for normies to meet their significant other at school or work than at a bar or club.