When I was new to VR I found /vrg/ meets ridiculously daunting, everyone was just cordoned off in their little clique bubbles and not talking to anyone who wasn't standing right next to them, it looked like a fucking school playground with all the different groups not mixing. 

I actually got my VR confidence in public instances, just talking to complete strangers at random, secure in the knowledge that i'd never see any of these cunts again so it didn't really matter, I could practice being a real human boy again and again until I got it right. And THEN I got involved in the /vrg/ school playground clique shit.