>>342114329
maybe don't send annoying messages and actually send stuff they care about?

"hi, how are you doing?" is pretty annoying, it's very unoriginal and basically gives the other person work ("oh, what should I say now..."). it's shit

"check out this meme lol [link to the funniest thing you saw today]" is pretty cool. now your friend is happy that you messaged them and looks forward to new messages from you in the future

you have a friend that likes music? send them cool tracks that fit their tastes

you have a friend that likes games? invite them to play co-op stuff on their favorite fotm

you get the idea. your messages need to give value. otherwise you really are just a nuisance