>>348980989
I actually don't get why so many people use japanese as an example for people who are intolerant of outsiders, every time I met japanese people in vrchat they were very kind to me, I even sneaked up into their japanese-only worlds that have a password entry by guessing answers until I got past the password, and told them I'm not japanese when I was inside, and they had no problem with me

could it be that it's because I don't run in screaming while being drunk, and just quietly join them on their activities and participate in what everybody is doing together?
even after I tell them I'm a filthy gaijin, they tend to be very nice to me, use their broken english to explain to me what they're doing and how to participate with them while being apologetic about not being better at english, and even give me headpats and send me friend requests
could it be that deep down japanese people don't actually care if you're japanese in order to hang out with them, they just want you to be a decent person with situational awareness who isn't acting like a narcissistic egoistic piece of shit, something that many westerners are just coincidentally not used to doing?