>>303705557
First vrbf was apparently cheating on me the whole time and it broke me for about half a year.
Second one would just leave to go to another instance without a word which would always get me down, he wasn't cheating but was just bad at communicating I guess and didn't realise it would get me down.
In the end I've realised it's better to just have close friends with no expectations but I know I'll eventually fall for the vrfu meme again.