>>346993782
You just described the difference between extrovert and introvert.

I, too, am introverted and I find extroverted people draining to be around. To be fair, it works both ways. Extroverts for us introverts very draining. Nature sets us at odds like this on purpose to increase our chances of survival. I remember hearing about it in my psych colleges courses. It's something biological and most mammals exhibit this difference in behavior between different members. What's interesting btw, is that extroverts don't actually reproduce any more frequently or successfully than introverts, or that they're happier, less neurotic, have more money or more friends. They're just louder and occupy everyone's attention so you get a skewed perspective on what the real statistics are. It's closer to about 55/45 in favor of extroverts, or even 50/50 these days because of smartphones, anime, porn, and video games saturating society immeasurably more than it did 20 years ago.