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I for one like how there are different instance types for people to choose from depending on their preference and risk aversion. You are exaggerating the numbers of randos as well even for SEA. From my matches it was at maximum 20% randos at SEA.
If you do really really hate the idea of potentially matching with a rando then just go to EU and NA instances for now. Some tangential /vrg/ people exists though like /1ntr/ who join in on the SEA one. Still chan adjacent in a way. It's not black and white