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Don't listen to this, it can be real loving and devoted experience if you just find the right person. Translating it into real life might not work but it may just be the thing you need to break you out of your shell and open up your feelings for a real life relationships. 

Communicate your needs and expectations and tell them if some things make you uncomfortable. Some people are deceitful and cheat. Others cheat because you didn't tell them what you consider cheating. Vrfus aren't worth it if you can't be open about things.

I still love all of my previous vrfus and just because we ended up breaking up doesn't mean it was not meaningful.