>>411529039
I've said this many many times in the past and I still think we can have overlapping things. I know some of us want to dance and drink and have fun while others think this is nothing to them, you're always free to host your own thing. That way the event joiners get more options and see what they like best instead of going just because it's an event is happening. 
This is what I love to do so I've been hosting it for a while, for more relaxing options like dinner I urge you to either host it yourself or get in touch with the dinner circle. 
t. dumb elf that manages the dance