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I'd say the majority of /vrg/ either ignores mutes entirely or actively dislikes them. A small number will give you some attention, but once you're out of sight, you're out of mind. A few have more success, but it's generally because they were absorbed into a circle as someone else's friend.

It's generally a terrible experience that I wouldn't recommend for anyone. Just speak immediately and never get stuck in the situation where you have to fundamentally change your relationship with everyone you know, return to square zero as an awkward sperg instead of something they considered cute, and have the bias of everyone who previously wrote you off as a mute against you.