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just go into any public avatar worlds and skim through the avatars there. don't look for a good avatar, instead focus on a process of elimination

too loli? not good
has tattoos? not good
exposed thighs? not good
piercings? not good
face looks weird? not good
weird effects that might crash people or just visually annoying? not good
broken animations when you move around or no face gestures? not good

once you find an avatar that you can't eliminate for any reason, it's probably decent looking enough that you can start using it

if you can fit your own preference into it, that's even better. i.e. lets say you like hololive and you find an avatar of a hololive member that looks decent, this can be a good conversation starter as well

don't think of your avatar as yourself. think of it as a shirt you found when shopping for clothes. it just has to look decent and align with your preferences while not being inappropriate. try to find a new avatar every day and eventually keep the ones that felt good to use over time

once you're playing a lot, maybe learn blender and unity and make your own version of an avatar, once you know what you actually like and what you're aiming for