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>all of them already have their own friend groups that I can't seem to infiltrate
This kind of thinking probably is why you can't get into any.
You're not trying to "infiltrate" anything. A friend group should form organically and dissolve naturally. It's like a little dance, you need to test their waters and they'll be testing you too.
Or you can just hang with /vrg/ and take all the goods with the bads.