>>329613831
Flirting is key. Outright asking is bad form unless they're mega horny.
Start with headpats. Kiss if there is no resistance.
Then GIVE THE SIGN
If they nod then you got it made.
Send them a private instance invite after that.
Remember somehow or another people don't like being asked for lewds bluntly in broad daylight somehow.
So hand signals work best to get their attention discretely.

tl;dr: Everyone's a slut but don't want others to blatantly know even though everyone knows. It's a complicated thing