>>372459804
The Problem with obsession is that it also usually ends in putting your own needs over those of your Partner.
You need them near you NOW, for example, and nothing will stop you, even if they are busy with something else.
So you disregard their feelings and needs for your own.
That is not true love, as you try to portray it.
Said Sympathy or Empathy rather, cause you are supposed to know what your Partner feels in this case, is still lost to many here.
Its all just selfishly taking and taking, then discarding the Partner once bored or being discarded cause the Partner did not let you walk over them with your obsession.
Understand that this is the tldr too, as the topic is too broad, to really name all kinds of how this would play out.