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>thinking that "best friend" was a friend at all
>thinking those "two friends" were friends at all
>giving people stuff when they message you just for favors
>wanting to join groups that like people that blocked you

anon stop hanging out with toxic people. you lost nothing when they stopped talking to you, the only thing you lost was the time you gave them attention to begin with

real friends:
- don't abandon you, always reply when you message them
- don't hold grudges, try to get over fights, not seek revenge
- talk to you when they want to do something together with you
- treat each person in a group as an individual, don't let drama not related to them change their opinion on others, talk to the persons themselves to make an opinion

my best friends:
- don't message me that often, but when they do, it's usually "wanna play this game together? wanna check out this adventure with me?" or just talk about topics we both like and have in common and share opinions
- we either never fight or if we get into an argument someone just says "hey man, I can see you're having a bad day, hope it gets better soon. tell me if there's anything I can do to help" and basically a real fight never happens
- laugh at drama, think blocking people is cringe, talk to people even if they're being rude to them and just tell them how ridiculous and immature they're being

people who pretend to be friends but clearly aren't:
- only act nice to me when they need something from me
- give generic replies to messages, don't really try to understand what I said, barely touch surface level
- ask for favors but never offer to help, start making excuses about how busy they are or how hard it is if you ever ask for the smallest thing

don't waste your time on the wrong people. you can't be everyone's friend. some people are just rotten from the core. use your time to find the right ones instead