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It is also a very large group. You need to be proactive about making connections, because everyone is already busy. It's not like early 2018 when we were all in befriend mode; you need to put yourself out there and participate in conversations.
It's easy to fall into a depressive spiral where you go into a world, no one says hi to you, and you think that means no one cares, but that's just a pathological way to frame things that only hurts you. You have to realize that someone who's not on frequently and consistently, at the same time, every day of the week, is not someone people expect to see, and so they're not going to put much investment into knowing. If you're not able to make that time commitment then it needs to be made up for with resilience and an outgoing, positive attitude.

Good luck, anon. You can do it. I believe in you.