I'm gonna travel but can't take my beefy PC with me. But I can take my slow laptop with me! So I want my PC at home to do the calculations but control the game with input from my laptop.

>Normal mode: 
Would it be possible to play VRChat on desktop from a remote laptop? If so, how?

>Hardmode:
Can I play it in VR, with a remote laptop and Rift S?

I mostly want to do Unity/Blender stuff from remote, but being able to also test it in VRChat and spend time with my friends would be even better.
Currently looking into a solution using Moonlight (https://moonlight-stream.org/). Other applications I was considering were:
TeamViewer (too high lag), Windows Remote Control),
Parsec, Steam Link,
Rainway, Nvidia Gamestream. 

I don't see how actually playing it in VR might be possible from remote, though. Also, not going to buy a Quest because >Facebook and I don't want to support mobile VR devices - and you can't interact with 99% of VRChat players with just the Quest anyways.