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>if the relationship requires you to constantly prop it up it's not worth having

Enjoy never having one that lasts, then.

You're gonna be propping it up just as much as they are. Now granted if you're talking fully one-sided, sure, but at least put in the effort to see why they aren't before you throw in the towel.

>most of the time they don't communicate properly what is wrong and how they want it fixed so they just sulk

This sounds to me like they may be inexperienced, or they don't feel they can be honest with you/are afraid of rejection. Usually I find if you're gentle and open enough you can coax it out of them. Most of the time there's not even something wrong and they've just convinced themselves you have a problem with them because of [arbitrary thing they've noticed].