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haha, please note that this paragraph i'm going to write is just a paragraph from a member of the community who has opinions that you are free to ignore

but I think there's a distinction between "hey dress up as this thing/profession that's often depicted as cute" and a full-on fetish event. There's reasons to like maids/school girls/etc that aren't sexual. The clothes are cute, for example. Yeah, some people will make a sexy schoolgirl or a slutty maid but there are interpretations that aren't overtly sexual. My avatars for these events are usually pretty conservative. Monster girl day was a different can of worms entirely, yeah, you had a lot of sexual avatars (monster girls are entry level furry btw) but there were a lot of legitimately monstrous avatars that were interesting, and that's also the route I decided to go.
Blacked is something completely different. It is entirely sexual and you cannot divorce the event from sexual content. Just google maids, you get a lot of pictures of girls in maid outfits that are more or less work safe, and actual advertisements for maid services. Google blacked and 100% of the content is sexual. Blacked is a sexual kink and nothing more, which is what I'm talking about when I call it a fetish event.

In my humble just-another-member-of-the-community opinion, I don't like fetish events because I think the tone of the meetups should be PG-13. Blacked goes a step beyond that and I find it revolting. Don't really want to see it. I don't think people should have penises or naked avatars out in the meetup at all, keep that stuff to private.