>>292637464
This is going to sound dumb, but have you considered [spoiler]just telling them? Yes. Odds are, if you tell someone out of the blue "Hey, I've been really enjoying spending time with you, and I'm starting to develop feelings for you.", they'll probably be taken aback. If they're not interested in that, they'll probably tell you. Which means you rip off the bandage early. If they are unsure how they feel, telling them how you feel probably won't make your chances worse. And if they like you too, maybe you can see how things go. I'm not going to lie, you'll likely get disappointed or even hurt a lot, but in my opinion it's better than ... letting a one-sided obsession fester and develop into jealousy and anger. Yes, I practice what I preach, and I'm miserable and alone. I do have very close, caring friends though...[/spoiler]