>>310641869
Be not yourself. Be borderline normie, extrovert, etc. That way people notice and accept you more. Having a cute avatar is a clutch but if you're rotten or annoying then people will mentally filter you out, thus no headpats. Remember, people will remember you for everything you did wrong and nothing positive you ever did, and will subconsciously filter you out from that point on. Never gonna make it otherwise.