>>293842601
the ex was the one trying to cuddle, and got denied instantly, while being told that's not an option now

you can't control what other people want to do. at best you can stop them when they try, and explain why. is this such a hard concept to understand

or do you think you are you supposed to message every single ex you have in your life as soon as you get into a relationship and inform them you're off bounds now as a preemptive measure?