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I've honestly never ran into drama as a result of meetups. Not saying it doesn't happen and that you shouldn't be wary of manipulative fucks, I've seen enough shitposting here to know that there are cliques there that go out of their way to try to ruin each other's lives.
For me I'm guessing its just a combination of not being on consistently + not erping? And not being interesting enough for someone to take a hostile interest to. So just be boring if you wanna avoid psychopaths, anon.