>>332797404
you don't need to have a complete lack of empathy to be a callous dick, most neurotypicals can shrug off stuff that they've seen people do since they were kid as something not that big a deal
people who follow social norms tend to thing bullying ain't no thing since they never got bullied proper, their idea of bullying is someone going a little too far with banter at one point they don't know the consistent witchhunt real bullying is and how everyone just turns a blind eye to it making it seem like the whole world is against you