>>363324498
I mostly play Assetto Corsa and Dirt Rally 2, but Assetto's VR support is kinda janky. What's "best" depends on what you're looking for.
As far as peripherals go, if you get really into any sim, you're going to eventually want a wheel. I'd try them without one first though.
>>363324771
From what I've seen, that wheel emulator should work for anything.