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>everyone will remember, everyone will know you as that thing. It's like OH BOY I HOPE I DON'T DO 1 THING WRONG
I doubt many people would mind and especially remember someone spilling the spaghetti, since we have so many people who themselves are or were spaghetti-spillers.
But even if that were the case, it is also true that you can improve, and that everyone loves a good redemption story. The shy mute turning into the confident conversation partner will replace the mere memory of you spilling the spaghetti once.