>>290511230
If you're literally just trying to figure out what your lovers doing when you're not around but he's been flirty and acts super suspiciously with other people, call it stalker or whatever, they're hiding something.

They don't want (You) to find out.

What's the most likely scenario in this case?

Obviously, cheating! Or something "borderline" cheating. So you gotta find out so you can axe them. You can't axe someone you love over minor suspicion, and hell, you love them, it's gonna take a lot more than seeing them naked in private one time before you even admit to yourself they've been cheating, because they'll feed you a convenient excuse and you'll eat them up because you trust and love them, until you just see so many lies piling up it all comes tumbling down.

What is stalking in your definition? Checking if they're on in VRCX to come say hi or some shit?