I have a problem wherein I see tiddies and ass in VRChat and it make pp the big pp, and although people want to lewd me, I am incredibly awkward about it. I find it so awkward to know what the other person is doing and what they expect. Most of the time the other person is muted too which makes it even harder to know what they're doing or what they are expecting in a given moment. I don't know if we're supposed to take turns, I don't know if my partner is jerking off, I don't know what they want from me exactly... and yet ERP is a huge thing in VRChat. I feel ridiculous being so awkward about it to the point where I actively avoid it. 

How does everyone else manage it? Are they psychic? I just don't understand how I'm the only one who struggles with it and I wish I could participate [spoiler]but even the last time I tried it when someone was explicitly servicing me, it was very awkward ((oh you're jerking off already? Oh you came? Oh you don't wanna keep going?))[/spoiler]