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>move on to somewhere else but I'm not sure where to go
Ride the coattails of somebody you find tolerable in /vrg/ to another friend group. I'd say roughly a third of the community has other people they hang with who are easily much "nicer" than /vrg/. If you can't pick somebody out on your own, start eyeballing people who are online but not at meetups all the time.