>join meetup
>oh nevermind there's no meetup it's dead and everyone's in discord voice playing desktop games

>join meetup later
>oh nevermind there's no meetup everyone's fucking in private

>join meetup later
>it's somewhat alive but it's just people talking about discord, drama, discord drama and irl meetups in-game
This summer hasn't been great, at least there's weekends for drinking and a few days here and there for comfy world exploring with a few friends but otherwise the meetups aren't really enough fun for me anymore. How do I enjoy public worlds again?