anybody else has this problem?

whenever I go on vrc people constantly join me over time, if I just go into a public or friends+ world within 2 hours there will be an average of 5 or more people who joined on me

even if I sit in a private world people keep sending me invite requests or join requests periodically every 15 minutes or so

but none of those people feel like friends, they're just there to leech off the attention I give them. they never let me talk about my own hobbies or interests, it's always all about them

I'm surrounded by people but I always feel alone. why is it like this. they all think I'm popular and act like I'm the leader of the group but deep inside I just feel lonely

tried doing an experiment recently and just sitting quietly and listening to others without constantly trying to entertain them or show interest in what they like and they started telling me I'm acting weird and someone even told me to jump off a cliff irl

literally all the people I meet are like this. I've gone through hundreds. they enjoy receiving but no one wants giving. it's all about them.

is this just human nature in general or is vrc really just full of the worst degenerate people that are not worth spending your time on?