>>336353596
i mean i guess that could be one thing
i think it is just that tops see it as beneath them and something old women do while peeking through their curtains and gossiping at bingo halls
gossip and drama whoring is not masculine behavior at all, kids gossip, women gossip, old women gossip, men do not gossip unless they are faggy or teenagers and taking pleasure in stirring up shit is hardly manly
only guys in their teenage years tend to get joy from causing mischief usually men tend to grow out of that phase and make their fun not targeted at individuals and instead make their fun into a activity they can enjoy like a hobby