just learn to be alone and to be okay with that, when you've achieved that look for partners only with the thought "would this improve my life?" in your head, if the answer is no or maybe don't do it, if the answer is resounding yes then go for it
too many people have fallen for the idea that they have to have someone to be happy but relationships won't fix your deep rooted issues they'll just make you stupid enough to share those with someone who didn't sign up for that shit and then you'll be left alone looking like a dumbass
find someone you won't have to wonder about if they would make your life better or not or be alone, it's okay to be alone as long as you are able to tolerate it or god forbid even be content with it
most of the time relationships are more trouble than they are worth