basic filters that women go through and some men with a functional brain too:
are you able to think for yourself or are you just saying what you think they want to hear
are you capable of keeping your mouth shut or will you blab it all over town that you had sex
do you share any commonalities with the person you're hitting on or are you just trophying
is this person going to be stalking in my bushes if i show them any amount of pleasantness

those are the most common filters that people think when they look at someone hitting on them