I joined the vrg meetup last night at around 7pm PST, there were quite a lot of people drinking already and arguing about politics for literally an entire hour. I was approached by several people who demanded I do drugs with them (alcohol) and when I refused they pressured me, and when I asked them to stop, they insulted me and ignored me. So, I found people who were drinking responsibly and not assholes acting like 14 year olds who just discovered booze to talk to and had a good time hanging out with them instead.