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This. It's not easy but having a few friends that like you is infinitely better than something like "popularity". Like there's no use making events if I don't have any single friend in /vrg/.

This is how this works. The friends in your immediate surrounding are what you project and see /vrg/ as. The community only works if each inner circle is healthy and having fun. Find your friends and the whole benefits from it as you gain positive energy surplus to share to everyone else.