How do people deal with busy instances so well? I always feel out of place and try-hard in them. Like there's a bunch of small groups and if you join one then the attention shifts to you, or you join the space but then you're just awkwardly there. Real EU hours tend to be one big group and the dynamics just aren't the same - you join the instance and you're just part of the instance as a whole, and you don't have to join/ leave small conversation groups.

I aint got shit to talk about so the idea of pure conversation and leaving/ joining them is rough as fuck so I tend to be on the periphery for most of it stumbling into the odd conversation and then slipping away.

[spoiler]pic related, when it was easier[/spoiler]