>>336360846
that's good, helping others makes you feel good about yourself and that's good
as long as you don't grow to use that as a crutch it is fine to help others and feel better with that
>>336360868
if you want to know things about the people you'd like to get closer to you you should ask them questions
they don't know what you want to know unless you ask them so them hiding things is just them not talking about those things without being prompted to talk about them
communication is like ping pong, it is a back and forth