so far these has been my experience going to /vrg/ meetups. idk if EU is the same but this is for NA

>people testing out if you're a lewd degenerate or not
>exclusive circles where people mingle around each other since they e-fuck each other on the side
>acting obnoxious just because they're drinking
>people head-patting each other and motorboating each other's tits as 40 y/o grown men
>automatically labeled as boring because you don't want to e-date or e-fuck anyone in /vrg/
>people getting too horny for each other so they go to a corner to further escalate or hop onto another world

The other 10% of my experience has been more than pleasant but I feel like I might as well just hop on public worlds for that since in order to be popular you have to be one of the two things.

A lewder or a drinker.