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>more interesting inv+ instances
Those are literally just sex instances most of the time, why would you be missing out if you don't want to hook up? baka my head retard
i just hang out with my friends on here and don't hook up. if you're having trouble doing the same, you just haven't found your circle yet. people are pretty welcoming towards newfags. if someone wants to gatekeep you for not putting out, they're probably not worth your time anyway.
and there is also the flipside, some people will look down on you for being a coomer. go hang with them or something.

with all that said, it IS true that some groups give you a free pass for being a massive cunt in this community as long as you ERP. but that doesn't mean you have to put out to make friends.