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That's a weird way to look at the world. I feel like what you're actually saying is
>basing your views of reality off of anything but MY experiences with real life experiences is all that needs to be pointed out
because I can tell you all about my actual, real life experiences and you won't even believe that these things happened. You will just say I'm some crazy incel that needs therapy. I don't have a problem with women and nothing that I said is even offensive or controversial in the slightest way. 

It seems like the only interpretation of reality that you see as legitimate is the one that your own personal lived experienced have created for you, and anything outside of that is just an incel fantasy because you haven't personally experienced it, regardless of how many other people say that they experienced it or how this message is constantly echoed out again and again from every romance book, every movie, every self-help book, anecdotal experiences from everyone, just every where you look you see the idea that confidence is attractive to women.