>>297066052
The Forest or Minecraft with the Vivecraft mod would both work if you're looking for survival stuff.
There's Elite Dangerous and No Man's Sky too if you're looking for space stuff, although actually meeting up in those games is a bit tougher.
Also, Tabletop Sim is kinda nice, and it's honestly better if there's at least one person at the table in desktop mode to handle some of the stuff that's hard to control in VR.