>>386846538
>It's normal social convention for existing members of a group to offer opportunities for new members to integrate
Majority of my early VRC experiences were revolving around exploring together with people from around here, playing games in VRC, talking while doing that. Felt like decent opportunities to integrate, i liked it a lot. I was lost on big evenings and parties, but i was never good with that IRL, so i wasn't surprised that it took time to find myself in this kind of events. Also, you can't really expect "community events" when there's 40 people split between two instances, all of them drinking and hanging in their own smaller circles. So, just try calmer hours if you want to be treated nice and personal.

Also, everyone around here was crazy welcoming towards me, but i dunno, i guess your experience may vary depending on many factors including luck.