>>301293973
This is normal in any conversation outside of VRchat too, ya gotta realize. You gotta talk to people in order to get talked back at. If you want to be a person that gets orbitted then you have to be attention getting and well known.
Fortunately, VRchat is a pretty safe place in the sense that you can just chill and watch/listen if you want, or browse the web on an overlay while others chat, etc. You can log out anytime you want if you feel uncomfortable. I think its dumb to give into the society expectation that you have to be an engaging casanova: being quiet is fun. Granted, if being orbitted is what you truly want, you gotta work for it. You can keep talking to people, you can work on avatars to either make them prettier or more attention getting.
The only time vrchat becomes dangerous if you get involved in stupid high school level erper drama.