>>385264962
Accept some people might ignore you because they have too many friends (in their brain) and no room left. That's not your fault and not their fault. Try to meet other new friends who are in the same situation as you. Be regular in your timezone so you fall in with other regulars. Find a group of 10-20 people who you are with on the regular and play some shit other than vrchat with them. Don't stress about trying to be one of the "popular people", even the leaderfags are local leaderfags at this point. This group is 400+ people in "greater vrg", if you count all the people who forked off into different clouds but still cross into meetups or hang out mostly with people who started in /vrg/. In four years it's grown from the size of classroom to an apartment building. It's just huge and nobody is that important anymore.