a vr relationship is not the same as an irl relationship

however lying in vr is the same as lying irl

regardless of which type of relationship you're in, you need to define clear boundaries with your partner about what is ok and what is not ok, because a relationship is about mutual commitment to each other.

different people have different expectations so it makes no sense to expect everyone has the same boundaries. that's why you talk that shit out.

although a real relationship is different than a vr relationship on many levels, getting your trust betrayed and having your partner overstep boundaries you decided on together hurts just as much in both

however if you never defined boundaries and just assumed stuff and then your partner crossed boundaries you never talked about, that's on you really. don't get mad at them, talk it out, then see where you can go from there