unironical blogpost below
Now, since 2022 came and i reflected of my existence before and after the time there. And i have to say Vrchat and especially /vrg/ really did wonders to finally getting to explore the social aspect of beeing a human. Before, my only contacts and, dare i call them, friends, would be some anons who gave a shit about who the other anon was, some retards on discord who tried to larp as normies and other internettrannies who all were mentally unhinged. 
after i bought a VR headset and began to explore the worlds of vrchat, i slowly tawed up a little, but it just was not ment to be. the communities i attached myself in vrchat were TDA niggers and other people who had an intact social life and were able to mimic that in vrchat, which led to me beeing the fifth wagon on the wheel. As you may expect that didnt really help. a certain event pushed me over the edge after all, when someone of the TDA people said my avatar looks ugly (it was a botoh i put in some work to costumise it)
in my sorrow and frustration i started to drink and on one fateful night joined on a vrg meetup. i dont remember much about what happend there, but the next day there were many cool people on my friendslist and i began to use 4chan again. since then i felt accepted by this community, sure, there was drama, but oh well, these things happen. i started to taw more up, and since this group is retard inc, i felt confident that i can get away with a lot of things, since oh well, im a drunk and retard. It helped to explore these theatrical expression that i show, the way i speak, the confidence and pride in things others may find "controversial". someone said he looks up to me because hes jealous of my "false confidence". I got an insight into many aspects of human behavior that i never thought i would experience. a genuine feeling of friendship, having a crush on someone... it is really amazing how much it helped. 
i just wanna say thank you /vrg/