>>315333183
>someone asks me for advice
>i give someone advice
>they get offended
>"ok"
>move on with it and wait until they vent
>change topic or follow the new topic they drop or follow up questions
>someone doesn't ask for advice and just vents
>either give unsolicited advice or lend them an ear so they can vent
>they get upset
>"ok"
>they take the advice
>"nice"
it's very simple, if someone gets upset for you covering your bases when giving advice it just means that the issue has been there for so long they have exhausted that option already and even going back to the start for 100th time gets their blood boiling, let them vent and move on from the topic
>>315333248
if someone is frustrated let them vent, if that bothers you grin and bear it until they are done and then give them level headed notice that it kind of bothered you that they vent off the rails, if it really really bothers you just fake a dc or some shit and if it's consistent just take a break from hanging out with them or something
you know your options the only thing stopping you is red tape and fallout
the only problem is the person asking do they have right to be upset, of course you do emotions are not logical, just know that if you're unhinged their emotional all the time most people are not going to enjoy that so you might want to take a break and work through some of your issues if you have a hair trigger for being upset or cut down on boozing