>>327360776
It's all risk and reward. Just like in real life. Only in the VRC social circle the risk is 10X higher. It's because it's easier. Easy to slip away hidden, easy to "cheat", easy to avoid someone, and easy to break them or build them up on a whim. You're in a masquerade. Little social stigma or responsibility. Don't close yourself off to the idea entirely though. Those sweet moments are at least worth keeping where you can get them. 
>>327361257
Oooh I see! You want to be the pig among the troph that looks up at its masters? Well I'm sure eventually that pattern would surface as well, and you'd have an interested owner.