any off handed bullshit is just hubris on my end fueled by alcohol, the problem is not that i've done this sober too and i've tried to make the most polite bullshit argument i could have worded the best i could and it still offended, why? it was not the damn wording it was the fact that people don't like to be contradicted thus they don't actually like arguing / debating they just like winning debates / arguments and if that is not available they prefer politeness
like i said i've been doing this for a long while and i've learned a lot from doing it