Keep in mind that anyone who calls vrc users shallow or whatever is on a platform where you can choose every single aspect about your physical appearance. What you choose is entirely based on what you want to appear as, and as a personal choice it reflects you as a person. Someone judging you by the important choices you make about yourself is perfectly vindicated. If you are a disgusting individual of no worth to anyone and should be removed on sight from any civilized area, you will choose to look like one.