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collider wise ive also used capsule colliders. you can connect sphere colliders together to get a gradual shape but i have better luck with capsule colliders still. youll have to play with it.
also a different anon mentiond using physics materials on colliders....i did not know that option existed and ill have to play with it. maybe it could fix some of the issues i have without needing my weird workarounds