women in vrchat are the most insufferable creatures i swear to god it is unbelieveable.
in real life, women get a lot of points from being, well, women. they have the inherent advantage of tits and ass and getting recieved as the weaker gender. 
in vr, everyone can be a woman, or a female avatar, and then the actual women have to fall back on their personality and suprise suprise, in most cases they are absolutely unstandable. i get a headache and space out when i hear a woman talking. It says quite a lot when men make the better women in vr.