>>364932873
Well congratulations and welcome to the real world, you've discovered what's known as "networking." If you go outside and start chatting up strangers, you might encounter about the same odds. With friends who know people, you're much more likely to find people you connect with.

To play devil's advocate for VRC, they've already acknowledged this issue and are working towards a way to build distinct "communities," although the specifics are still vague.