>>307158175
>Everyone just assumes female model + FBT = lewder.
It's an easy, but harmless assumptions to make, because you can just say you're not into ERP and leave it at that. That's what I do.

>>307160898
>I don't like it influencing how people react to me.
It's normal for people to make assumptions, so you shouldn't take it personally. This anon has the right idea: >>307158718

>Purefags get nervous because they think I'm trying to lewd them.
You need to take that in stride and clarify that this isn't what you want to do. It's then up to them to decide how to react to that. Also, many get nervous around people they don't know.

>Lewders try to turn everything into lewds then get butthurt when I say no.
People who get butthurt about being denied ERP can fuck right off.

If you have a reputation that is invalid, or people have expectations that are invalid, then the way to fix that is more exposure. You need to socialize more to correct that and clear up misconceptions.