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You might catch flak if you show preference and refuse going to private with wrong people. If you're too good at pats it will lead you with more people who want a piece of you than you have time for. This in turn will drive some away and cause others to fight over you in sneaky ways.

Worse yet you think you can handle it but end up falling for another patslut who just continues their promiscuous behavior and it'll be you staring daggers at other people.