>>297379971
those videos are the youtubers and shit over-reacting to get the content they need.
what's adviced in vrchat is to just hang out with people in VR, talk, meme around, visit worlds, play games and just have a good time (the erp is optional)

but what's actually happening is a bunch of people without VR, not talking, doing nothing but looking into mirrors, use modified clients to break everyones shit and normalfags being absoluut degenerates for they don't have basic social skills.

but what you do is up to yourself, you either visit worlds and have a good time talking and/or drinking, or you just isolate yourself and suck dick.