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you do have a point there, i have been guilty of that in some occassions as well, i used to get mad at people who spoke shit about people but i justified that in my own place when i had already voiced that in thread
it is a easy pitfall to fall into, you don't even think about it when you do it and through that i have done it too, i have been a hypocrite too that's why i don't want to be that a lot, just mentioning other people when they are not around is enough to justify gossip and that's bullshit behavior
i have disdain for some people and speaking about them is not right if the person is not around, my target of disdain was dal and i did mention i disliked the way they just inserted themself into a power vacuum, had i said it only in thread it would have been fine but i also spoke about it "behind his back"
i am also guilty of hypocrisy but at least i am aware enough to call myself out when i do it