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The biggest hurdle to getting help from anyone is knowing what words to use and what things are called. The "how do I join mesh" question is one of those questions every board/thread has that is so basic and simple that it generally gets answered with "lurkmoar". We all started with basic youtube tutorials on vrchat avatar creation. The key word you're looking for is "Frankensteining". There will be plenty of tutorials on how to do that on youtube and probably some new ones that are a lot more streamlined than the old ones we learned from.
Try not being a faggot and show some initiative. Also don't whine when you get told to fuck off for being a retard because you asked for handouts instead of figuring out the basics yourself.