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Step 1: Be a bottom
Step 2: Get picked up by a top (figuratively and literally)
Step 3: ???
Step 4: Profit!

In all seriousness though, your mileage may vary. Most serious relationships in this game tend to happen by mutuals and friends, so generally just hang around ingame (preferably with a friend group), and you might meet someone who you get a mutual connection with.

Sadly as with IRL relationships, there is no guarantee that you'll find someone quickly (or find someone at all). I'm not gonna be one of those "oh jus b yourself and you'll meet someone" types, but that really is pretty much all you can do. Forget the "VR dating" sites/groups, that's a waste of time.