Reminder that when someone says "all my lewds happen spontaneously", specially in a lewding discord, they actually mean to say they're not interested in lewding you (or whoever they're talking to). Any time someone asks why there're less organized orgies and lewd events lately it's because sadly you're not invited to them. Most still lewd each other every day and have smaller private "orgies" almost every day. And it's not just you specifically, a lot of them just don't want to lewd everyone or some specific people so they end up DMing people instead of asking publicly and running a risk of someone they don't want to lewd joining them. It goes even further where there are now multiple smaller private lewd servers and people most often make lewd meetups in private worlds with their close group.
So just remember when someone tells you they "only lewd spontaneously" that means they are rejecting you and you shouldn't bother wasting your time on their retarded circle jerk group