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>I'd rather be with everyone in the instance and be able to hang out with my friends instead of being able to get 10 extra frames in an overflow instance where none of my friends are.

Friend by Fiend solved that issue by forcing a split instance after the initial group photo.
So you get 60 or so people on the first instance then split it perfectly in half.
You then get two 30-30 instances that are ready to be filled.

I'm sure the offshoot instance in this case will fill up too just that it will be a bit slower to fill compared to forcing a 30-30 split to start with.