>>326412345
confidence can be gained, it's called SELF-confidence for a reason, shit if a loser in life like me can be confident in himself it should tell you something about the internal nature of confidence, you give it to yourself when you learn to accept yourself as you are with all the flaws and everything, once you accept you have flaw it is just waiting for time to chip those flaws away, can't chip what you don't see
i used to be very introverted for a long period of time, i still get more tired than energized from hanging out with people for long periods of time but i think you can still do it if you learn tolerance to unpleasant emotions through exposing yourself to them willingly, you feel anxiety and discomfort being around people? hang out around people you barely know first, take your time and push your limits at your own pace, you don't even have to talk to them just observe them and see that you're not the only one, then look at the ones that are obnoxiously extroverted and realize that's no blessing either, they socialize because they have to because being alone energizes you being around others energizes them
when some news reporter guy asked the white death what made him so good with his rifle his answer was "practice" and there's truth in that, you naturally hone your skill in something just by doing it enough and even if you plateu in your skills in something you can still learn to do it more casually until you don't even have to try to do it anymore
>>326412602
>i just can't interact with people
then don't, if it is really that difficult to you why force it, if you really want to hangout near people ask yourself why and ask if it is worth the discomfort to go through it
>>326413092
it really is i get labeled either infj or infp by it and people think i am one of the chattiest motherfucker there is despite the test saying i'm supposed to be some wallflower