Excuse the crappy stickman images, but I have a question regarding dynamic bone settings. I have a bracelet on my avatar's arm that has a gem that dangles on it (the red circle hanging on the wrist) and it has a dynamic bone to move around. The issue is when I lift my arm the gem continues to "stick out" forward, instead of naturally falling downward (ignoring gravity) and it looks weird.

What I want is for it to behave naturally like the bottom set of images. I tried messing with dynamic bone settings on it but not getting any good results. I know "force" applies some kind of gravity like effect and the actual "gravity" setting doesn't seem to do anything at least that I can tell?. Figured someone more experienced with this shit may know what settings I have to tweak