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another thing as well is self confidence which gets shilled a lot without any explanation, if you cannot have faith in yourself how do you expect anyone else to do either, if you treat you two being together as a mercy from her why she feels like she is taking on extra weight for her journey, best way to gain self confidence is figuring out what you actually want from life and your relationship with whoever you end up with, when you know that all there is left to do is find something that matches that and if you two don't click after you ate the bee's it is better for the long term hence the saying "just be yourself" or as i like to say it "eat the bees"
no amount of words will fix how you look irl but you can't really use that excuse in vr where people just see how you want yourself to be represented as your avatar