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>as if what they're doing is 100% completely fucking divorced from the idea of trans-ness or non-binary shit. 

It is 100% completely divorced. If someone doesn't think they're trans they're not trans, because self-identifying is a choice. "you used a female avatar, you're now 10% trans~ Oh you crossdress? You're 25% trans sweatie" is bullshit. Young men with aspergers tend to have a weaker sense of identity (and adjacent fetishes) so they're more likely to get trapped by schemes like that.

[spoiler]and non-binary is just a way to erase tomboys[/spoiler]