>>366578807
I don't usually hang with /vrg/ anymore, since it's sorta devolved into "movie night - every night" and it gets old. I just fart around at the pugs (with a load of security mods) and shoot the shit with a few friends who are regular.

My advice WRT meetups is to just jump in and fake it. Talk about shit that interests you (that isn't cooming). You'll do fine. You'll eventually find people you feel comfortable with.

I usually force myself to get on at a specific time each night so I can unwind and get some socialization in. It works. Just remember to make a checklist if you have a lot of gear and side programs to set up (e.g. VRCX, foobar, etc).