monogamy is literally a power play that was given to protect women (the bottoms) from playboy men pumping and dumping them with a kid, in gay communities it is fucking retarded to trust someone with that kind of power over you because the hoe can just sit on you until they feel like dumping on you and then going full femoid mindgames on you to make it your fault that she is leaving because "tee hee i'm grill it's fine for me to be irrational ;>>>"