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You have to dig, you have to have enough personality for 1.5 people. You're not interacting with a typical social cross-section in VRC. You're talking to people who are at best a bit alienated from society, and a bit socially awkward. They're usually autists in a very literal sense, with a highly specific and narrow set of interests.

You can get good conversations out of these people, but you need to be able to set context, set topic, and build the social interaction. Alternatively you need to find someone with shared autistic interests and talk about that all night.

Lastly, don't forget that for most VRCers this is more social attention than they ever usually get. Hence they behave like shitty 14 year olds who just discovered popularity in school.