you're literally just making your side of the fence look like shit, i guess this could be some false flag bullshit by trannies but even that seems far fetched, some people enjoy sex and some people know mono isn't going to work for them so they just yield to poly or fwb or open relationship stuff
you wanting to force them to behave like you do is just you wishing they were like you, they aren't anon they aren't like you and they don't want to be like you, you like to be like you because you were taught to be like that and because it suits you