>>341629141
Join a /vrg/ meet and say you're new. New people get lots of help fitting in because we all know how goddamn nervewracking and hard it is to try and socialise with people you don't know. 
How to join a /vrg/ meet?
Add "Yuru" and "Shammy" and join off one of them. Then talk to anyone at all and say you're new. 
I recommend not being yourself, and forcing yourself to interact with people, even if it's just sitting around listening to the conversation try not to be by yourself out of fear.