>>273465875
If you loved them, they wouldn't be wallflowers.
Here is a sociopath using the word love because it makes people feel better, not because he feels it.
Exhibit A: of the /vrg/ sociopath, they'll butter you up and say love without ever feeling a lick of it, they'll turn on you if they deem you evil.
The "jovial" atmosphere is a guess from the sociopath, they cannot feel the air of a room and project what they want it to be. 
Meanwhile half the people are dealing with unspeakable dramas and are very very depressed.
But they said they love you, so do what they say.