>>337107001
you sound like you're lying to yourself if your interactions with other people are anything but selfish, you enjoy hanging out with people so you do the steps you think is necessary to be their friends, they are useful to you because they give you good company and make you feel good about being their friends and for this you exchange your goodwill
the people who you would have to "sacrifice" your time to hangout with you snub and ignore (assumptions), tell me about the people you're using as ego jerkoff to pat your back for being a good guy, describe to me how you are not using them for your own feel good while lying to yourself that your actions are anything but selfish