>>282294171
I have friends. I spend a lot of time with them and trust them and don't think twice about sharing close personal things and feelings with them.
I also have acquaintances. I see them at varying levels of frequency and treat them cordially, remaining open to deeper discussion if I find it interesting.
I am friendly towards both of these groups. I do not see the contradiction. Are you supposed to befriend one person and then build a moat around them by attacking everyone else you see them with? I really don't think that's a healthy relationship at all.