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This is one reason you tell that /vrg/ is full of men even if you've never been to a meetup.

What I mean by that is that men are much more likely to try to give practical advice even in situations where the problems are vague and real solutions are very difficult. This is why when problems are posted here, given answers are typically accusive and seemingly biased against the poster, even when they are clearly not the most guilty party in the scenario. Since the other parties are usually unknown and inaccessible, it makes sense for the repliers to suggest a resolution that the poster can initiate, even if it is clearly not entirely reasonable. 

Women on the other hand are more likely to offer emotional support and ways of coping which might sound worse and less helpful to many of us, but this kind of response rather than a cold potential solution is typically much more tenable for the particular types of "Feels Bad Man" style issues that arise here.

All I mean by this is that /vrg/ needs to be more feeling, nurturing, and think about the other person themselves rather than simply what they think they would do if they were in the other person's position. These things simply do not come naturally to us men.

We can toughen these downtrodden people up eventually, but kicking them while they are down isn't the effective way to do that either.