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then stop pretending to help.
If it's not working, then you're not helping. It's just something that you thought is "helping".
Stop pretending to be sad when someone killed themselves.
You will just move on and live your life anyway, so why pretend to be sad for the funeral?
Stop pretending like you "helped" someone, and it's just someone's fault for not picking themselves up after your useless and worthless "help".
You're just feeling bad because you failed. You failed to help someone to get out from their misery and painful life. You failed. That's why you're mad and pretend you "gave up" trying to help the other person. You just want to legitimize your actions, thinking that you are helpful, and it's the other person's fault. Just admit that you failed.
Stop pretending that people wanted and enjoy the suffering.
Nobody want that. Do you think people would choose misery than happiness? Do you think people would enjoy that? so much that they wanted to kill themselves all the time?
Stop pretending that people can acknowledge the root cause and solve it.
They are suffering because they can't diagnosis their problems and don't have the ability to fix it. Hell, most of the people don't even know what they wanted. They just feel suffer all the time.
Stop pretending.
Get off your high horse, and stop pretending.