trying to please someone by being a doormat can actually backfire hard, your natural sense would be if something is going wrong you try to compensate by "acting better" but if you don't know what you're doing wrong you will just end up fucking it up even more, if they are a person who got together with you just to mold you into something you were not then fuck em you're dodging a bullet by them dumping you for it
on paper keeping a relationship is easy, in reality humans are complicated creatures that require a lot of things we don't so openly discuss, what are they looking for in a relationship, what are you looking for in a relationship, are you giving that reciprocation to each other, one of you may be really clingy and insecure while the other one just wanted someone to share fun times with in freedom without worries
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^ this is pretty much the advice i'm getting to as well